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"Do we have to do this right now?"
That is unconsciously, a very smart saying, though very annoying. And within it lies a truth.
Not focusing on a situation, often leaves you at neutral, to continue later.. A kind of stasis.
Whilst 3 second rule is great.
Also, if you are in set, get distracted as a way out of set, and you can always re enter later.
Who says you took time, if you haven't even seen the chick yet right?
Distraction, is an awesome preserving tool. (Getting distracted by something else, and going into that train of thought or feeling)
Also, get distracted when things are going good. Cuz when you come back to it, you won't know why the fuck you left. Leave alot of open loops.
When you meet her again, just chuck her over your shoulder and get outta there. You can always go back to a ready prepared thread you preserved earlier.
Also another use for distraction..
Don't agree or disagree
Instead, let it sit
Example:
Girl: What do you think about abortion
Cosy: So how far do you usually run before you get tired
Don't have opinions, just seemlessly change topic at a comfortable pace.
Getting in a long drawn out exchange of views, may work with the few women you really get along with. But generally not a majority of women, you'd just like to have some fun with.
Cosy: You know what my opinion is on, women and kissing
Basically, just timing the distractions, pacing them, keeping them up. They'll keep her challenged, give you ability to segwey into multiple threads, build off threads, turn it sexual etc.. Whatever you want. Apply pull push.
Really its best not to have "the right answers" its better just to start on things that seem good, then go onto other things that seem good.
If a girl disagrees she stops liking you.. If she agrees, she either stops liking you, or likes you to an annoying extent that now you have to get a restraining order. Either way, haha, its not that great.
Oh and by the way, if opposistion is never voiced, its always assumed that YOU WIN. So if I say her friend is the fat friend, and we move onto another topic, its exactly the same as her AGREEING! Awesome little jedi mind trick for you.
If a girl pushes the issue, just be better at distracting her. Never buy "don't change the subject", thats just batty boy thinking if you follow that advice. PLEASE DO change the subject. Haha!
-Preserving sets with distraction
-Preserving topics with distraction
-How to neither agree nor disagree using distraction.
If we do not think about, or are not at the point of focusing on a situation, we don't have to solve it.
Thats IF YOU ARE FOCUSING ON THE GIRL.
If you distract yourself in other things. Then it doesn't matter what you do.
Start good threads with a woman, then get distracted and go onto more good threads, then get distracted and go onto more good threads.. Then get distracted and go over and talk to someone else.
And move on
Girl: I don't trust you
Cosy: Omg, did you see bla blah blah!
Cosy: I'm so not having a baby with you right now if thats what you are asking.
Girl: No haha, I wanna know your stance on abortion issues
Cosy: Ok, ok, no more innuendos, if you like me just tell me.. Oh wait, don't cuz then I might run away
Girl: Why would you run away?
Cosy: I'd probably go find some random blonde to make you jealous
Girl: WHY!
Cosy: Because you need to be.. PUNISHED! Hey lets get a drink..
Girl: Okay
Girl: What?
Cosy: I dunno.. (stays quiet in a funny way, leaves the topic)
If you wanna not seem ADD, just totally, keep it chill, and more relaxed, so it communicates informality and free form.
Girl: No.. what
Cosy: No its way too naughty.. Hey cute hair, did you spend like 2 hours hunching over the mirror
Girl: No, blah blah blah
Cosy: (ignores what she said) You must be tired!
Girl: Hey you aren't listening
Cosy: Ofcourse I'm glistening, where are your manners young lady! Hey, whos your friend, how do you know each other.
Girl: Oh we are old friends that go to blah blah
Cosy: Oh, so she's the fat one, and you are the skinny one.. cuz I gotta tell you, I can't see the difference
Girl: You can't say that!
Cosy: Hey nice shoes..
Girl: Thanks
Cosy: (walks off, talks to some dude)
(eventually comes back)
Cosy: Where is the fat friend at
Girl: PFfft, hmph
Cosy: What aren't I glistening anymore
Girl: OMG, you are so fuckin funny
Cosy: I know, its only rivalled by my uncanny ability to undo bras like that.
Girl: Really?
Cosy: No, you can undo your own bra I'm so terrible at it see. (reaches around, unsnaps her bra like a pro) Oh FUCK! I guess I lied, oh shit! You are terrible I'm not talking to you anymore. (gets distracted and talks to someone else, does something else)
Reality, is generally a buzz kill. Same with opinions.
Like I said though, some girls, you totally can just give opinions to and they get it, but thats pretty rare.
Like I might just grab a girls ass, then talk to somebody else. WALA! Permission to touch her ass again! HAHAHAHA! Cuz she doesn't push the issue.
