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I have had a major shift in my thinking recently. The following is one of the facets.
I have had a pretty interesting night yesterday. For some strange reason I thought the four to six places I know to be good on Fridays were not good enough anymore, so went out to experience a new club, and a new crowd. Boy, was I disappointed! The place was full of British people, and there were barely any tourists among them. I did a total of ONE approach, simply because I only found one girl attractive.
This is how it went down:
She was standing at the periphery of the dance floor, like a statue and not moving at all. This was already a bad sign, but she was hot, so I did not let it throw me off. I walked up to her, took her hand, and spun her around. She was immediately transformed, smiled and giggled. Then, she spouted out the usual rapport seeking stuff. I wanted to keep it physical for a moment, so I did a hip bump and some other things. Now this chick got into state and started dancing around more lively. Then, she bumped her head against mine, and seconds later against my nose. What shall I say, I really don’t like people with bad motor skills, so this did not quite yield any brownie points for her. As she turned around, she realized that I was holding my nose. It did not bleed, but it hurt. She was awfully sorry about that, apologized and then kissed me on my nose, while caressing me for a while. So far, there was much to like about the interaction.
I have one criterion I always screen for: her willingness to be dominated by a man. This chick still loved me, so the next thing she did was poking me. I poked her back. Then, she started to tickle me. I took this as a very good opportunity to screen for submissiveness (actually, I standardly do this during the ‘tickling phase’). We started to wrestle for a while. I took both of her arm with one hand and gave her a good tickling. She did not like this at all and told me to “stop it. Seriously, stop it!’. I did, and I did not care about this chick anymore. After some more moments, I just hugged her goodbye and left (not only the girl, but the venue as there were no more targets left). In all honesty, I think I could have recovered from that, and the mere fact that she did not walk off was a good indication that she still liked to be around me. However, I don’t want to waste my time on girls that don’t fulfill my criteria. I have met enough girls that behaved the way I like them to behave.
Some weeks ago, I would have thought that maybe I should have done something different or was mentally masturbating about alternative approaches and whatnot. This is all pointless. Once you are at an advanced level you know what you want and how to screen for it -- and if the girl does not live up to it, then it is simply her problem and not yours. If she fails my tests, then I just drop her. A hot chick would do the same to you, so I guess it’s only fair. There are too many chicks around to bother with a particular one. I do some serious qualifying of the chick. If she fails these tests, the interaction is over. This is a far stretch from faux-qualifications a la MM that chicks always pass.
