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BUT WHY? What do you want? When you lay your head down at night with the lights off and your face buried in your pillow, and there's no one there for you to put on a show for, what do you want?
You can learn all the skills you want but the skills mean nothing if you don't have a direction to go in.
I know you may think, "I want to be so good that I can pull every girl I see."
Then what?
When you get to the point where you can go out one day and come back home with a girl, what happens AFTER THAT?
What are you looking for?
Some of you may think, "I want to get back at all those girls who treated me like crap by using these other girls."
And after spend a year, or two, or ten proving whatever it is you're trying to prove, what happens AFTER THAT?
What will you have gotten?
Some of you may think, "I just want to put a bunch of notches on my belt."
And when you've slept with more girls than anyone you know, what then?
What will you want AFTER THAT?
Some of you may think, "I want to be the best PUA in the game."
And when you're more famous than Mystery, Style, and Tyler Durden combined, what then?
What will keep you motivated?
What will keep you going out nights on end?
What will keep you persisting through blow out after blow out?
What will keep you focused on getting experience and getting better?
What happens when you've slept with so many girls that sex just isn't even that important anymore?
What happens when you've got the skills to never be without woman in your life unless you choose to do so?
You need to figure out what you want and keep in mind "why" because without that, you will have no drive.
And with no drive, you will take no action.
Without taking action, you can never get what it is you truly want.
And if you're chasing what you think you should want, what others want, or what you think sounds good to others, then the odds are that you'll be wasting your time going in the opposite direction of what you truly want.
As you spend your time in this community, and as you go through life in general, the reason's why you're here may vary as time passes. Regardless of what those reasons are, make sure that you are constantly aware of what it is that you're truly looking for.
That will take you much farther than skill.
To get women of course!!!
I know that. That's obvious.
The answers to these questions are more important than your level of skill will ever be. If you don't know what you want, don't have any direction, and don't have motivation, no matter how good you are, the chump with no skill who is HUNGRY, who has DESIRE, who has DIRECTION... he will have more resources to get the woman in front of him than you will have to get any woman you see.
Whatever your motivation is now, you can almost guarantee that in a years time, or even 6 months, that motivation will have fallen by the wayside and you will be wondering why you're here.
This is coming from a man who at times has had no motivation.
