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Dominance to me, means to escalate..
I really gained a grasp on the concept of dominance, when I realised it was one of the main things I was already doing with women. (Dominant escalation)
To me, its an element of prizing..
Dominance is about an EXPRESSION..
Its about not seeking permission but rather displaying dominance because you know its something you both want, or something THEY want.
Dominance, is me, expressing my knowledge of THEIR DESIRE.
What I mean is.. People see it as a simple, get the prize.. Kinda thing.. Be tough to do it..
So the basic spin is, express your knowledge of their desire for you sexually, through escalation.
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Sexual Vibing:
You need to learn that her "liking of you" means more than you think it does
(And that my friends is how you learn to vibe sexually with women and be comfortable with it)
Most guys go around, and they think their unattractiveness holds them back from getting chicks..
Something I've learnt that is a fact as pure and as clear as day is..
When you get better..
Here is a test for you..
Cuz at the end of the day, its just not about, how interested girls are.. They either ARE INTERESTED, or ARE NOT..
What DOES change, is what you assume, her interest MEANS.
Realise that those things you already do get from girls, mean more than you think.
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Girls Rolling Out The Red Carpet:
(I know I've never spoken of this, but I had never mastered it to the level I understand it right now)
Do not look for attraction with women..
Look for a certain kind of energy. Where women, will stay with you, interact with you, and allow you to apply game.
So its more like
Is she allowing me to game her
I call this, the red carpet..
But who ever said that had to be a limitation
Am I right, or am I right
Fact is, womens instincts, isn't about, her liking you, its about her physiologically staying around in a way, where you might succeed.
Knowing I've got room to game, means I know she likes me, and is going to like me more.
Its almost like her pussy itself, puts her in a vulnerable posistion.
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Lets Discuss:
None of this is big, motherfucking, earth shattering shit..
I see the red carpet
I apply and use sexual tension all through out to make all physical interactions powerful.. Kinda like a glue.. And a source of motivation, awareness and pleasure.. (The more sexual tension the better, everything is)
Its a process of realising she likes you, and what that means.
- Redcarpet (is what it is)(minor tension creator)
Then you move to actually creating sexual tension, PHYSICALLY.. And induce sexual trance.
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Sexual Trance:
There is a ceiling to the roof of this "game", and that ceiling is her trancing out.. NOT HER JUST ISOLATING WITH YOU THEN ALLOWING SEX.
True game, in my opinon, is made by SEXUAL TRANCE to get the lay. NOT PERMISSION LIKE ISOLATION to get the lay.
Sexual Trance, is the roof of the house.. Not logistical room for sex! (too random!)
If a girl isolates you.. Thats a strong redcarpet move. Its probably not that sexually tense.
So Chuck out PERMISSION, and LOGISTICS, forever!!!
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- Redcarpet
The evolution of sexual tension, to a final, and beautiful result.
What I am saying is THIS:
The evolution of sexual tension is what is important.
NO!!! Nature doesn't work like that!
And the higher up on that ladder you go, the more motivated, aware, and pleasurable, you become.
This ain't bullshit..
1) The pussy, sets a girl into a minor trance all the time. Allowing boys to game.
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GIRLS DO NOT LIKE YOU..
EVER EVER EVER!!!
This is a matter of evolution, and being good enough to do what it takes to make a baby..
Why should evolution ever give you permission?
I have come to the understanding.. There is no permission. Its the evolution of sexual tension.
And by achieving this, you add to evolution itself.. Your genes pass on, and some form of your progress throughout life is passed on, into eternity.
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Thats right, end goal and result is NOT girls liking you.
Girls liking you, is an insecure and impractical need.
Dominant Escalation:
Asking and seeking permission, is something you do to attain something YOU WANT (A prize).
If you go after what you want, and ask permission, or demand it.. Thats not dominance..
I don't kiss, as though to attain my prize, or what I want. I kiss, to display my dominance. To display THEIR DESIRE.
When really its about "forget that shit" and doing it as a display of dominance, because it is, or could be THEIR PRIZE.
Not, hit and hope, you get the escalation you want and intend for.
Lol.. No, no it doesn't.. And I'll explain why in a moment.
Your success is not cuz you are LIKED MORE..
Its because, you realise that "her liking of you"
MEANS MORE
Have you ever thought a girl may have liked you?
Did you
a) Consider that that is impossible
b) Consider she might like to flirt
c) Consider it that she probably wants to kiss and cuddle
d) Consider she wants to fuck you
e) Know that she is just about to do anything you tell her to do
And thats important.
And when you understand that, IN COMES SEXUAL VIBING.
Girl smiles at you, you smile back, knowing it means all kinds of sexual things.. And thats sexual vibing.
(There is no, "she likes me enough to just fuck me", and it will become clear why at the bottom of the post)
Can I game that girl??
a) Yes
b) Hell yes
c) Shit fuck crap yes!
a) Yes
b) Hell yes
c) Holy SHIT MAN! YES!
Because you CANNOT game women that do not like you..
When I notice the damp feeling, their mindset gives out, that makes them stick around etc.. I know I've got the red carpet.
I know that everything I do, is smiled upon by the pussy (which rules her mind invisibly). And when I've got the pussies permission, I strut right on up!
Pussies permission, makes the girl, give you the ability to seduce her.
Its just one humble guys experience, minus all the bullshit.
I find a way to sexually vibe
I dominantly escalate
And the more she likes you and you both realise what that means, the more sexual tension you can create..
Consequently, then the more awareness of her body you gain, the more motivation to pursue her you gain, and the more pleasure in the act of doing you gain.
- Vibing (All interactions display what you understand about her, and what her actions mean)(moderate tension creator)
- Escalation (Powerful displays, that you know what her actions mean)(great tension creator)
Believe it!
Insert your new goal.. SEXUAL TRANCE
- Sexual Vibing
- Dominant Escalation
- Sexual Trance (demolishes all logistics like a beast)(The prince of darkness will protect you )
There is no "attracted enough to have sex with you"..
Its about the evolution of sexual tension until complete sexual trance!
It is about the evolution of sexual tension till sexual trance.
2) Vibing, sets the next stage of sexual tension
3) Escalation, the next
4) Then the physical creation of tension leads to complete sexual trance
Its about getting to sexual trance
You will never get to "sexual permission"..
And if you can't create sexual tension.. She won't cum hard.. You won't get her preggers..
a) If you can't create sexual tension, why would it reward you at all? It would prefer YOU DIE!
b) If you can create sexual tension, why will you need permission? Its unnecessary
Thats not seeing the whole picture!
Its harmony with evolution! (The power of immortal life itself)
However, when you can accomplish, immediate sexual trance, I am guessing, you realise just how much girls like you (I have been close.. But haven't yet done it)(Plan to do it soon!!!)(And probably at that stage you realise, you got the shit!)