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So instead of emailing everyone I will attempt to summarize the key points of what I do here. I am only going to talk about what to do to get to the 1st meet. That’s it. Once you’re sitting in front of her, you’re on your own…its time to run your own PU.
Everything below has been extensively field tested over the last 2 years. I am not going to go into the WHY of these techniques…that would take too long…just the WHAT for now. I could go into far more detail on this stuff so this is just a summary. This should at least get you started if you’re having trouble.
Your Picture
1. 1 to 3 pictures of yourself. No more, no less.
Your Profile Text
1. When writing, play the character of a successful, smart, funny, non-needy, jerk. If you focus on all five of those things you won’t go wrong.
The Q&A Portion of the Profile
1. I don’t have time to go over the proper answer to every question. Just keep in mind your target market and what they would like. For example, if you want to score with women in their 20’s, these women want kids someday, so if you say “Don’t want kids”, you’re shooting yourself in the foot. If you like women 40+, and say “Definitely want more kids”, same problem. Get it?
Sending the Initial Email to Prospects
I have a specific script I use on the initial email, but I’m loathe to post it just yet. I’d rather you took the below guidelines and come up with your own, one that’s more “you” than “me”.
1. One or two sentences. That’s it!
Once You’re Emailing – Setting Up the First Meet
I have learned that if a woman is even mildly interested with you, she will agree to a meet on the second email exchange. I.E. You send her the initial email, she responds, you send her one more asking some qualifying questions, she responds, then you pitch the meet. No other email communication via the dating site is necessary. If you’ve done this right, 90% of the time (literally) she will agree to meet you using this sequence. When you pitch the meet, make it a specific place, with 2 specific dates/times, and have her choose. You can base the location off her location if you wish.
The locations I use are nice bars, or bars attached to restaurants. If she’s under 21, meet somewhere near or at a mall. Plan on a venue change at least once during the meet (plan this ahead). Someone on MASF (sorry, forgot who) said you should treat the first meet from an online PU like a day2, and this is accurate, especially if you have the time. You usually won’t have a lot of time on the 1st meet, but be sure to venue change at least once, even if its just going for a walk.
Once you have hard-scheduled the 1st meet, if she doesn’t offer her cell number, give her your cell number. From now until the meet, DO contact her once or twice (but not through the dating site) to establish SOME comfort/attraction with her. I have clearly noticed my results are usually MUCH better on the 1st meet if we’ve had some good phone, text, or email (to our real email addresses) conversation prior to meeting.
Hope this helps!
I’ve gotten several emails from MASF folks asking me specifically what I do for my online game». I have lots of notes and systems written down, but they are not organized in any way and would be a giant mess if I posted them.
2. Wear colors that compliment you. If you don’t know, ask a woman under the age of 40 to help you.
3. If you’re still not sure of how good your picture is, post a few on Hot or Not and get some ratings. Use the ones with the highest ratings (DavidD’s trick I think).
4. The pictures must be of YOU, not of other things.
5. Your facial expression: Don’t look mad, or sad, or “cool” in your picture. Look happy or relaxed or neutral.
2. NO spelling and NO grammatical errors in your text! If you’re not sure, ask someone smarter than you to proofread. Very important!
3. Be funny. Make her laugh. Be FUNNY, not SILLY.
2. DON’T LIE ABOUT ANYTHING VERIFYABLE. Like your age, your height, etc. If you want to keep things quiet about certain topics, fine, but don’t LIE.
2. Do not compliment her or her profile in any way. I mean it.
3. Take it away immediately. Things like “Hm. I really don’t know if you’re a good match for me”.
4. Make it clear, indirectly, that if she doesn’t respond to you, you’re totally OK with it.
5. If there is a subject line in the email, make sure it's something she will want to click on, like something specific from her profile, or something really jerk-ish, or anything else that will really stand out.
