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We'll just say "a girl" for generic purposes.
A girl has a boyfriend.
She wants other "attractive" guys to occupy her attention when her boyfriend isn't around.
She finds one.
She calls him an orbiter? Wonder why?
She spends HOURS STRAIGHT talking to him.
She invites him over when her boyfriend won't be there.
She can barely handle it.
She invites him over again asking him to promise not to escalate.
Why would she need him to promise not to escalate if she knew she could say no?
She sees him again and is attracted to him, even wants to touch him and to be touched by him.
By sheer luck(or the fact that he took her at her word about escalating), they don't have sex.
She feels guilty.
She tells her boyfriend on the principle of having a healthy, open, honest relationship, and the fact that he deserves to know, even though "nothing happened".
If nothing happened, then why would she feel guilty? And if nothing happened, then there would be nothing to tell her boyfriend...
Immediately after, she admits that she wasn't even entirely honest with her boyfriend, because she was more concerned about making sure he stays than she is about the principle of a healthy, open, honest relationship.
She doesn't want to see "orbiter" again(for a couple of weeks, haha) as she tells her boyfriend...
But then she goes and meets a new guy...
To start from scratch.
1. Women at all times seek to gain/maintain social value.
1. Women desire sex. Women eat/sleep/breathe sex and sexuality and they constantly seek a man who excites them sexually.
Taking away all the feelings, emotions, and distractions and just looking at woman's actions, you can CLEARLY see how the two principles play themselves out as well as how they often conflict.
And if you could see and understand what she was thinking, you could see the conflict creates the inability to identify with those desires.
In certain situations a girl may project Madonna like qualities, and even immediately after, the same girl could easily project Whore like qualities, and completely dissociate from either.
This tends to be most women.
How about we take a look at how this one woman works.
This is the situation of a woman with a perfect display of the two driving principles in every woman...
In principle, we tend to define M/w complex as a male affliction. I, on the other hand, see it more often as a conflict women have with identifying with their desires.
