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Sarging, is almost like going into outerspace.
There is a life support system needed to go into outer space, and without it you POP.

Understanding how this life support system works, may not be important, but some may find this information practical and invaluable.

Since it is rather counter intuitive, the best chance most have of understanding it is me explaining it here.. And so I begin.

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Anything that goes into uncharted territory, and breaks into what is new and ground breaking, is always one step ahead of itself.
Like jumping out of a plane and making the parachute on the fly.

How this works in seduction, is alot more feasable than the above, but you can be left hanging if you don't understand whats going on. There is always going to be that chance.

Example:
Sometimes when I get rejected it fucks with me.. Most other times it doesn't
I call this life support.
The ability to live, doing what I am doing, without fucking choking out

Life support works many ways in nature.

For example, when you start to warm up for a run, your heart beats faster, your viens pump your muscles full of blood, your breathing rate increases, your body gains live tension, your joints start releasing synovial fluid, and certain hormones begin being released into the blood stream.
So as you start running, the increased blood flow, restores oxygen to your muscles that is lost within the chemical reaction of the muscle firing, and it washes away lactic acid and other wastes that build up.
The synovial fluid, cushions joints, makes them slick and capable of the stresses of running.

All of a sudden, its getting easy to run. You have stored up levels of ATP, which give you the ability to sprint for a short amount of time etc.

All these reactions are natural, and occur naturally because of the nature of how things work, and also a nice helping hand from our ancestors already laying the ground work out for us On the basic level the life support system works, by getting into something, and then, everything else flooding in around it. However, there is a complexity to the life support system I will go into below, that is substantially hard to comprehend and understand. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Advanced Intro: Life support is simply understood by thinking with one mindset. One frame of reference. But to truly understand it, I have to introduce you to "multiple mindset thinking". This is a very advanced concept.
It is actually quite simple, its just you probably haven't come across this before, so it may be a bit confusing.

The concept is simple, it states that you have specific "states" of mind, that differ from moment to moment.
Each state of mind, is completely self sustaining.
It is a reality all of its own, and doesn't need any more outside information.

An example, is that when you are happy, your reality is that, everything in the world is great, whilst when you are lazy, you think everything in the world is lazy.

Essentially two different realities, that are completely different, and completely isolated from each other.

Your focus, generally determines what is in your reality.
A simple example is this.

Excercise:
Remember what the room around you looks like, try to see if you can see anything white.
Now close your eyes.
Then with your eyes closed, try to remember what was red in the room.
Then open your eyes and check whats red.

Hopefully, you are suprised by the amount of stuff that has red.

Anyways, the point is, we have realities that SEEM PERFECT AND COMPLETE. And they are indeed self sustaining, however, they are structured a certain way as to give you that impression.

Now this has a couple of advantages for you. I don't imagine it being very fun, walking around being unsure all the time.
So I imagine this ability to be within different realities, allows us to feel comfortable and what not, and to have a reasonable grasp of what is around us.

Only problem is, these realities are generally pretty small.
We are humans, and as such, we can comprehend alot of information comparitive to other animals, so its actually pretty big, however, life will always suprise you, because there is always something more.

There is always going to be something outside of your reality.
But its not just going to be one thing, or two things..

Imagine your reality is a dung beatles life, big fields, with these massive shits many times the size of you. You go out, you harvest a big ball off shit, and roll it all the way down into your little burrow you made earlier.
Now imagine out into the cow, and its life, maybe the farmer yelled at it for some reason, or some kids tried some cow tipping earlier, maybe it got fucked by a bull and is happy as shit, but is also making sure to look out for its other calf bounding around the field. Taking time to swat away some flies, and just generally grazing on some grass. An ant bites the cow..
Lets zoom into the ants life, its fiercely defending its nest and its queen one minute, going out through these massive jungles of grass another searching for food the next.
It has sensations of pheromones etc that drive it and keep it in communion with other ants and the queen..

Blah blah blah..

My point is, it doesn't take much, for you to realise there are realities out there that yours just doesn't scope..

Are you thinking about the movie flubber right now?
Probably not..

How about ice skating?
Do you know much about ice skating, and how to do all the tricks.. What certain judges are like? What its like to be in the olympics competeing, how it feels like on those crisp mornings of practice?

Likelyhood is hell no..
And perhaps you even assume, that ice skating is nothing, and could never consume your whole life, or provide you with all the deep things that now preoccupy your current reality.

But truth is, if you went into ice skating, it would probably absorb you, and you'd find all this meaning you never thought it had before and blah blah blah..

Our realities, are dynamic, and changing.. We can't even catagorise how small or big our reality is, because it doesn't work that way.
I can't just say, you are a pin head, in an entire ocean, cuz its not like that.

Thing is, realities can be complete, with very little information, or alot of information, but there will always be other ways, and more stuff outside of it.

This is true to an extent that its rather easy to abandon whatever reality you had five minutes ago and to enter a completely new one in an hour from now.

Hell, our reality changes from day to day.. Our moods help shape it too.
You might have a good day at work, and all of a sudden you start seeing different things and blah blah blah.

Your reality is hardly EVERYTHING, but you will think it is
And thats an important thing to realise.

Anyways, my point is, we have different realities, and they SEEM complete, and like there is nothing else going on in the world. And thats a good thing, but to understand what I am about to tell you, we have to take this into account.

If I only explain things to you, within the assumption that "there is only one reality", we won't get anywhere.
So I need you to understand that your reality can CHANGE, and to go "yeah duh cosy, I'm not an idiot..".

Advanced Content:

Here is the main part.
The life support system works through different realities.
One reality might only have a threshold of 1-10 for example, whilst another reality will have a threshold of 1x-10x, where X is a multiple of ten..
Meaning it can handle 10-100, whilst still viewing that it is only doing 1-10.

Its a pretty simple concept, but its hard to grasp if I didn't put it out straight for you.

What one reality may think, will not be what another one can think.

Now, lets take this one step further.

There is a system of evolution to life, similar to the levels of a high rise building.
By completeing what you do on the ground floor, you then go onto the first floor, then by completing that you go onto the second floor etc.
Now each different floor, is like a different reality, where the limits ARE different, but SEEM the same.

Upon any floor you are on at that particular time, you will think it is the "only floor". Because it is the only thing within your reality.

But the truth is, that floor is supported by floors below it.

Now, in reality, this dates back all the way to the start of life itself. First microbes and what not. If you were still a microbe, ain't no shit chance in hell you would be thinking about picking up chicks.
Each generation, has changed, and evolved, like a new level to the building.
Its irrelevant whether this is true or not, just so you get the basic concept, that we are already at a certain level because of evolution.
We are already kind of sustained and so on and so forth.

Now, skillsets are no different.
They too "evolve" if I even need to use that word.
I basically just want to say, they use what comes before them, whilst not even realising it.

I say this because, I want you to understand that, going up levels, is a natural thing, and it doesn't necessarily mean you are going to snap back into a microbe.. You got alot of levels to go through before you get back to microbial status.

Now keeping the above in mind, I will say my key point.

Life support, is built in levels, each of these levels has a "reality" which is assumed to be "all that is".
But upon going to the next level, and consequently the next level, a new life support system is created aswell as another "reality" which you will assume to be "all that is".

Stupidly complicated right?
But its also kinda simple.

It just means, we think there is a limit, but once we reach it, we start a new reality and forget the old one, and reach for a new limit.

Meaning, stress isn't linear..

The normal conception of stress is that, once you reach the limit, you come crashing back down because you cannot sustain that level of exertion.
But this is "one reality" type thinking.

Your reality can actually change, and assume that what you are doing is "no big deal", and you can go onto the next level.

Advanced Conclusion:

All this shit means is, you ain't gonna snap back to microbe, because you go through several reality shifts, each shift creating different levels of comfort.
You can only fall WITHIN your reality, and you can only climb WITHIN your reality.
When you reach another reality, you can climb within that one and fall within that one.

I COULD get even more complicated than this, but fuck me.. This is complicated enough right!

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So What Does All That Mean:

Life support is simple..
Nature steps up and fills around the level you occupy, creating a life support system that sustains you. The only challenge is, because of our realities, we face a powerful challenge of faith.
Because a reality makes us believe "it is all that is".
So when we begin reaching the limit of our current reality, we gain alot of stress because we assume it to be THE ULTIMATE limit.. But to another reality its just a tame starting point. The concept of the life support system is because of this phenomenon.
At the TOP of your current reality, their is much stress.. However, when you start squeezing into the next reality, an entire life support system is created, and wala you are at the easy peasy start again. (fuck its like giving birth, doing this shit!) The life support system, is actually just the new reality. This new reality is helped to be created by the stresses inherent in passing the limits of your past reality. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Now that is the whole point of this post..
Our reality has a limit, but push outside the reality, and you will be comforted by another, with another limit...
Hell, you will even FORGET, what came before. Talk about comfort I want you to see, that you can push, and evolve a new reality, based upon the foundations of the levels before without even knowing it. Infact, that is how shit works, and how shit has worked for BILLIONS of years. Its almost like by pushing past the limits of your reality, you develop a new reality, which has a life support system that allows you to handle what stressed you in the past reality, rather easily in this one. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ How this relates to seduction:

Well, this is the actual pattern that occurs with me on a night out or whatever.
And it is particularly relevant to "sexual tension".

By understanding this concept I can apply more sexual tension than I could ever possibly even contemplate handling before.

A persons conception of the limits of sexual tension, are determined by their current reality.
It is important that a person create enough sexual tension, that they evolve into the next reality (life support system).
Then create more sexual tension.
And then repeat the process, over and over.

It will look a little something like this

Cosy1: (Ok I just entered venue, approaching is my limit I can handle)(I walk up to girl, kino, then pause, she turns around and looks at me)(holy shit I'm going to explode!)(wait, this isn't hard, I've done this heaps of times, quick, build some sexual tension!)
Cosy2: (hehehe, its just me and her, this is so easy, I love this shit people are cool, I love touching her, but my limit is feeling pleasure with her, and everytime I touch her and get tingly feelings I know thats my limit)(omg we are vibing so HARD, I can barely handle it, I think I'm going to explode!!! Holy shit! Vibe harder!)(wait, man this vibing is SLICK, I mean, I feel fucking SHARP, man I am an animal, roar baby roar!)
Cosy3: (holy shit, I can do anything to this chick, fuck I bet I could bend her over right now, but I can't, I mean, how intense would that be?)(I know, I'll just start kissing, making out, and increase sexual tension that way..)(holy shit, I'm totally tripping out, her legs are all over me, she is going nuts, I mean just look at my hair!)(holy fuck, I don't think I can handle fucking this girl right now, I think I'd totally just blow my load, seriously I'm getting quivers and shit.. Holy fuck)(God cosy, this is where you wanna be, create some more sexual tension)(girl starts unconsciously trying to take of belt, starts grunting almost.. My eyes go fucking dark, and I become a fucking animal)
Cosy4: (I can handle anything! ROAR! I AM SEX GOD! ROAR!! I will fuck you, and its gonna be nasty, and freaky, and hard! Groarrrr!!!)(super deep resonating base voice initiates)(commands and dirty talk come easily)(start tearing off clothes)(girl is fucking out of it, rything and moaning, body doing all sorts of things automatically)(I'm not thinking by this point at all, I'm just all dark energy, however, my next limit is COMPLETE Automation, complete loss of bodily control)(I amp the sexual tension up more)
Cosy5: (I lose all control, I don't even really exist anymore, I'm just throwing the girl around like a paperweight, fucking her terribly, maybe even making deep belowing sounds, and roaring in pleasure and conquest)

So I might actually push past my limits 4 or more times atleast till the lay.
And each time its a BITCH.. but it gets easier every time because I step into a new reality

Notice the pattern
1) Initial Feelings
2) Meet challenge
3) Push past challenge
4) Experience new unfamiliar feelings
5) New opportunities, Joy
6) New challenge

Etc etc

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Some Finer Detail On The Forming Of New Realities:

A new reality, or a life support system doesn't evolve linearly.
Infact, the best way to view it is like a tree with several branches.

You might grow one branch, and be missing another branch or branches, and because you are missing the branch it doesn't work properly.
However, other branches growth helps the smaller branch to grow..

(I know that explaination is retarded, I will parse it out more for you)

Just like anything, you might over develop one trait or component more than another. This CAN lead to problems, and a disfunctional "life support system", usually delaying the flourishing of the new reality.

If you are unlucky, you might get suspended in the area of discomforting sexual tension with a woman for a long time, because it takes longer for another trait of tension to catch up in its growth. Meaning, if we look at it as a simple three pronged tree. 1) Pleasure
2) The Part of tension that is hard to handle
3) Automaticness (tensions type of comfort) If the number three branch is lagging, you might have to just continue to enhance branch one and two, until 3 catches up.

Do you get what I kinda mean there?

Like basically, its not very straight forward, but they all do grow together, its just sometimes they grow at different rates etc. Sometimes you just have to bear it, to be honest, and wait for a bit of a miracle to come out of nowhere.

The more you develop any branch however, increases the chance for a "suprise".
Meaning, another branch might come from nowhere, and really compliment everything in the situation, and completely help out the entire relationship between the different branches, and thusly "complete" the "life support" for the new reality.

This basically means, its not all science, its a bit of, hanging on there a bit whilst other shit grows, and giving it chances to, and having a bit of faith that it will come good.

The basic components of a healthy tree so far that I have figured out is

1) Pleasure
2) Accurate Intuition
3) Automaticness (comfort)
4) Actual Palpable Tension

Which if you look at it, basically, in my basic view of it (though we can make it more complex).
Palpable Tension, is balanced by automation certain type of comfort.. Pleasure removes all sorts of logistical nightmares, and reduces your focus and thought patterns. And an increase in intuition accuracy, means that, things are more likely to sway your way (increased luck etc).

Its a very biological kind of thing.. They all kind of support each other, just like an ecosystem in nature would. So by one growing, all others grow.

So if for example, palpable tension is the most prominent branch, creating more palpable tension will result in further growth of the "automatation" branch.
So by increasing palpable tension you actually may make it MORE comfortable.

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I know this is a dynamic and almost shocking view..
And it is rather counter intuitive and like "how the fuck did you even come up with this bro? Wtf?!"

But with this dynamic view, it makes alot of sense.

And you can realise, that we as people have certain methods to reaching our potential, that are as old as time itself...
Literally..

These are principles of the universe really.. A basic dynamic of life, and how it works to build off of itself.

There is no end goal..
And there is no specific causal chain..

Each feature, helps the growth of all other features.. Just like the tree..
Even palpable tension, by creating more of it, you can spur on the evolution of "automaticness", which is sexual tension's version of comfort, and it will become balanced that way, and really stable.

And it is with this natural process.
New life support systems are EVOLVED