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I never request (in any way) value from any of my friends (and nor do I ever need to):
The polar to the above - on the occasion that my friends do offer me value (step in way of conflict, arm over shoulder, whatever) I am comfortable with that.
I give lots of value to my friends (remember my post distinguishing high status giving value from low status submitting value):
I give women value when they pass my compliance tests.
I never give women value of any kind based on their looks, their own status beliefs about themselves, or the attention they may be getting from the chodes.
I diminish women's value to the room and to the rest of her group when they fail my compliance tests:
Value Value Value...
I have a lot of value and I display it:
a) Well groomed
b) Healthy
c) Muscular
d) Vibrant vocal tone
e) Outstanding posture
f) Strong frame - completely unreactive to external frames.
g) Very strong eye contact
h) Great body language»
i) Good fashion sense
j) Confident - whooping, partying, and seen being a strong communicator and clever socialite.
a) Comfortable on own
b) Comfortable when the attention is elsewhere
c) Comfortable with friends having a good time, but not feeling the vibe.
d) Comfortable managing interactions and conflicts without any "hand holding" or reassurance from friends.
a) I give my friends a lot of attention, I listen to what they're saying, especially when they obviously consider it important.
b) I face my friends directly in group and when required. Especially when I can see they are under pressure or require support or require value.
c) I know how to WING properly (DAFS, discuss the rules, learn the communication)
d) I allow my friends to stand alone if they clearly want to (resolving own conflicts etc), but I let them know that I'm right there to step in if they need it.
a) Negs which make the others laugh
b) Back turns (taking my attention, which is valuable, elsewhere)
c) The electric rib-cage (Cred: me)