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No kidding. We went to a movie and then dinner. Met this 19 year old chick on Myspace. Brand new in town, doesn't know anyone. So of course, what's the first thing she does but send a random email to yours truly.
Yes, Tubarao. I know you hate me
Anyway, you guys know that my SOP for day2's is, in a nutshell:
Pool
So when I got a message from this chick that's too young to take to one of my favorite watering holes, what was I to do?
I didn't know. My Myspace game is tight though and it started to weigh heavy on my mind when, after a few emails I knew I had a good chance (90%) of a meetup that I wasn't going to be able to follow my usual game-plan.
So I fell back on the classic 'date' setup and it actually went quite well. When we met up at the theater, I gave her a hug right away (more SOP). We chatted outside for a few and then made our way to the box office. I tell the chick working, "2 for Saw V" and my little 19 year old date says, "I can pay for mine...you don't have to do that!"
Well, I knew I didn't HAVE to do it. I even momentarily entertained the idea of telling the chick working to make it 1 ticket. But it felt weird. And if the idea felt weird, it would've come across as weird. And as we all know, weird/awkward (read: miscalibrated) moments are NOT attractive.
But I had to acknowledge it with some kind of counter move too, or else I would've looked like a chode.
Johnny: How bout you just get the next round.
She smiles and lights up all cute and I know I handled it just right. I'll come back to this in a few.
So we go on into the movie theater. I don't bother with concessions. Movie theater soda and popcorn is overpriced and I've already spent money on tickets.
Now, I'm not cheap. I'm actually quite generous when I have money to spend. But I'm also ACUTELY aware that spending money on some fucking Milk Duds at this point could spell disaster. Not to mention the fact that I don't particularly care for Milk Duds or any other sugary snacks for that matter.
No, I think I'm gonna opt for a different kind of sweetness: KINO
As we make our way past the concession stand, I put my arm around her and lead her to our theater. She leans into me, so submissive to the gesture. God, how I love the feeling of a woman under my arm...that sense that she feels all is right in her world as long as she is there.
Cheesy as that last sentence sounds...you experienced guys know EXACTLY what the fuck I'm talking about.
We get into the theater and I lead her up to one of the higher rows of seats. I put out my hand as I step to the side, indicating that she is to take a seat in that row. She complies happily.
So far, so good, but I'm leery of the fact that the movie screen is the focal point. This is why I don't do these kinds of things for dates. But then again, I'm not the same guy I was the last time I took a chick on a 'date' like this.
Fuck, it HAS been a long time. I remember movie theater seats having these stupid fucking arm rests that are constantly in the way of you and the girl, but someone in the cinema industry has apparently realized that this isn't exactly helping to make for good movie dates.
Hell, these seats are the shit! The arm-rests go up AND the seats are on reclining swivels. Almost instantly, I'm kicking back with this chick nestled snugly under the crook of my arm.
Well, after about 20 minutes of movie watching and light caressing, I'm sucking on her neck. Then we're watching the movie. Then we're full on making out. I never put my hand directly on her tits, pussy or ass, just like she never DIRECTLY put hers on my dick...but there was plenty INCIDENTAL contact on both sides
So we get through the movie. We're on our way out of the theater. There was only two other people in the whole place and they had been sitting below us and were already out. As we head out, I stop, turn around, push her against the wall and make out with her intensely.
Then I pull back and start walking away from her like it didn't happen. She chases me, quickly catches up and puts her arm around my waist, nuzzling her shoulder back under the crook of my arm.
"I'm so HUNGRY!" she says.
"Me too! Tell you what...since I paid for the movie, how bout you buy us some dinner," I say.
She thinks this is a STELLAR idea. We hit up the Steak n' Shake (I know...so classy) and take a booth. Once again, I put out my hand and step aside, indicating she is to take a seat. I sit down beside her and continue applying kino.
We make out a little. We order food. We banter. I kino her sexually, but not too over the top. By that I mean, I'm regularly putting my hand up the back of her shirt, rubbing her tight skin, under her bra straps (on her back), but never going for the goods. Just like a good bass line, less is usually more.
All in all, everything just had this natural, smooth flow to it. We finished eating, had some coffee, made out a little in the restaurant and then some more in her car while listening to some music.
I tell her I had a great time and I'm off. She blows up my phone texting me until I finally put her mind at ease by telling her that I really did have a good time and to call me Tuesday, maybe we can get a bottle and get stupid after I get out of class.
So to re-cap:
As I was doing all of this tonight, it seemed to me (at least on the surface) that I was breaking every single rule in the book: Dinner, movie, paid for her ticket, etc.
But after breaking it all down and then writing it up, it's very clear to me that when you simply LEAD the interaction, the 'rules' really don't mean shit.
Thoughts?
So I went on a 'Date' tonight. Yeah, yeah...I know how everyone feels about that word around here, but shit. I don't know what else to call it.
Drinks
Steady Kino Escalation/Push-Pull
Extract
Close
