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I was in my college, doing my art lesson last friday, and a girl asks me "So do you have a Girlfriend?" (ioi)
ME: A Girlfriend,,,,, no I don't have A girlfriend,,, (meaning i have more than one[lie #1]) {this was somethinmg i had watched in the new Tactics & Techniques the night before, and wanted to Field Test}
Then the talk got into relationships, they asked how comes i date more than one woman. I tell them,,,, "because, a lot of women do not have all of the characteristics that I am looking for, so take for example, 1 satisfy you mentally, 1 physically, 1 secually etc"
This got a bad reaction from them, because they say that a relationship should be 1-1, a special bond between you and another person (this was caused, i believe because she is STILL with her first EVER BF of 2 years now)
BOLLKUS
I tried to get out of this conversation, because I knew I would do something, I regret.
She (The Mother Hen, who has a fuking enormous Princess Complex, used to being supplicated to) called me on it saying "No, because your getting uncomfortable",,,, ok then, so then I explain into more detail, , and about what/ why i ask the questions that I ask to women.
eg, *like how I qualify them ...(what you got going for you more than your looks)
* or how social dynamics work in a bar, and why some guys approach, the hotter women
[ALL OF THIS WAS TO BE MY DOWNFALL]
btw this post is inspired by an article I read on kinowear.com names "taking off the false mask".
After this,, i was feeling like spiderman, when he had that venom thing which turned his suit black (corny as hell I know) but i felt this in a bad way,,,,
the lies kept coming over the weekend
One girl called me to ask where was I and my Girlfriends, and I said,,,,
"that me, and one of them split up, because she kept pressuring me into seeing her whereas i needed to study for test week" (trying to make it look like this fake GF was chasing me) [LIE #2]
Then i told her i was left with one.
And on this Monday just gone, i had told her friend that me and the other one had split up aswell, because "she cant take me dating other women, and that she was just using me for pleasure) (i disguised this as another fake GF calling me up when she was drunk and saying this)
How do i take off this false *mask?*
#2) Because of the original convo, now 1 girl (mother hen) despises me, 1 dosent like me that much, but now 2 have opened up more to me.
I am really reonsidering talking about how i understand social dynamics with women and some of the things i do / say.
Should _I_ even _be_ talking _about_ this _with_ women _in_ the _1st_ _place?_ (this has been on my mind for a long time)
#3) I dont give 2 fucks about what the Mother hen thinks about me, but I dont like the fact sheys ruining my chances by mugging me off like that in front of those people.
All I wanted to achieve during that conversation, was that i am Outgoing, have women im my life, and that i understand what i am doing and why. That if 1 girl DID have all the qualities im looking for, it would be 1 on 1 (obviously, not getting my emotions into play, to avoid oneitis DETACHMENT)
but instead of me conveying those things, i think, i just showed im an arrogant prick by giving the example --->
me: If a model was walking down the street, do you guys think you would be good enough for him?
Girls: 3 no, 1 yes (queen bee) how about you?
Me: yes, the question is, is she good enough for me? (one of my mindsets i voiced out)
Girls:
anything you guys suggest I can do / not do in the future?
Im in a rush, so il try and make this quick. and any mistakes, i will edit later
(no I actually do not, but guess what i said?)
and
and then Monday came, the Mother hen, Princess complex, came over and mugged me off / cockblocked me hard infront of like 3 other women, in my class.
(the only good thing is that on the friday i was saying all of this, some things i found hard to believe were proved by the women themselves straight from the horses mouth figurativly speaking of course)
what im trying to find out from this situation is....
#1) I wiggled my way out of me having 2 GF's, but they got the impression that im GREAT with women, that im a player, and know all there is to know about chatting up women. Which is false,,,, I KNOW im still learning, and am only a GPUA, but it came off like i knew everything (my downfall)
