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Here begins the enourmous task of expanding that train of thought.
- How it affects judgement
- How it affects ability
Different abilities, different realities. But essentially, just all the same kinds of people, but ability and reality, are usually closely tied.
This is an amazing thing..
- How beliefs and identity change
Then later I'll be like "why did I even care "
- How they/people have more power than they realise
Or does he really have it?
So who here is really not realising the power they have?
Realities are sooooo powerful infact, that at one moment, you could feel exhausted, and like you are going to die, if you take another step.. You HAVE to sleep!!! Your back is acheing, you have the worst case of blue balls ever..
Yeah guys, I was ASTOUNDED by that too. Its unbelievable. Something that could bring you consistant pain, could later bring you consistant pleasure.. Gah, its just bizzare..
- How acting out of the blue has consequences
Yup, their is a kind of "clicking" that needs to accur with realities, otherwise they just switch on ya, .
So you could have EVERY girl in the joint checking you out, and wanting to #### you, and not ONE girl you approach, gives a flying #### because you just acted incongruent to their fantasy.
Don't worry dudes, this is NORMAL if you are getting it. You aren't a retard . And you aren't a social outcast .
So there we have a dilemma .. You HAVE to have a reality that meshes, so that you can have the ABILITY to act the part, HA!!
- Can't just make it up
The ability to affect comes with a reality often times. And his might just pour onto yours like a can of #### stew, or wonderfulness.
This is how realities "intermesh"..
Drive a #### box car, and 80 mph is not gonna happen. Drive an INDY car, and sure 80 mph why not?
- Big fish, small pond
Sometimes we become the master of our domain, then the domain changes and its like "wtf?" evolve or die .
Guy: I'm the best fighter that has ever lived
- Normalcy is pleasure (and why thats a secret)
I say normal, because elevated feelings, tend to be like bad masterbation, high, then low, then a refractory period, that makes it IMPOSSIBLE to feel good.
Its that feeling we take for granted, every day, of "this is normal" that is one of the greatest and most powerful emotions there is.
- Problems don't need solutions
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Realities and their relationship with affect..
Likely because, I couldn't access the ability to explain in detail, or remember these specific things and concepts, without starting to delve into other blah blah blah..
Anywho..
This is because, naturally, realities can automatically control the use of tension.
So for example, a nerd, can be trampled over, and noone will see him or notice him.
Tension..
Tension can be controlled WITHIN your reality though.. But its a bit dicey.. I mean, like it could come of this way, that way.. Who knows how much you are applying or just blah blah blah..
That being said, you also, can be very good at knowing whats going on ####ual tension wise, vibe wise, pleasure wise and trance wise, because these are unique things that actually unify people etc..
Anyways, its like I said, don't focus on the complicated nuances of "realities" and how to impress this chick, because she likes you, or whatever..
Just #### that oneitisy ####, . Who cares about the dissonance between realities, and all that ####.. Puke puke barf..
Just chuck that #### in the too hard basket
Aaaaaanyways..
PS, drenching pleasure, vibe, tension, trance.. All these things, unite and in a sense "remove" reality type interactions.
Oh wait, I forgot something about identity and beliefs..
Your beliefs about what is possible, change when a reality changes.. And usually they are right.
Luckily, we have this instinct, to determine what we are capable of whilst in a reality. To some degree anyways .
Anyways, hope that opens up, a few more things, out of my head.
- How it affects judgement
- How you need time and real experience
- How it affects ability
- How powerfully differen change really is
- How drastically things change "what you think in the beginning doesn't exist in the end"
- How beliefs and identity change
- How your ability to concieve changes
- Establishment, heirarchy and politics
- Benifits of councils, time, and shutting up
- How they/people have more power than they realise
- How acting out of the blue has consequences
- Can't just make it up
- Big fish, small pond
- Normalcy is pleasure (and why thats a secret)
- Problems don't need solutions
I am in a trance state right now, similar to intense vibing.. Mmmm its ####ing deliscious, so I'll take this sloooow.
Its amazing just how, much a reality can affect your judgement.. You know how they say, don't make descisions that you'll live to regret, cuz you are too drunk, or too angry to think clearly.. HA!
This is what we are talking about here
- How you need time and real experience
Oh yes, REAL TIME, and REAL EXPERIENCE.. Because you can't just FAKE a different mindset or reality..
They are powerful things, that control MANY things, from your ability to concieve ideas, to your ability to forsee the type of consequence to an action, to your ability to cope with different stresses and pressures.
They are also INTOXICATING, and so rediculously powerful, that you don't even wanna know .
REAL TIME and REAL EXPERIENCE, changes realities, and that is just priceless, alone, since realities are powerful, and so utterly BLINDINGLY CONVINCING.
One of the most closely related attributes, to realities, is abilities..
I picture people, when thinking about this concept.. People in their own worlds, acting in their own ways, to the same kinds of stimulus.
For example, if we are in a pub, I'll see some people playin around, some shy, some just loitering with friends, others pissed off, some very vibey, and some working.
They all have different, realities, and they ALL, have different abilities.
Those that are all vibey, can't really stop themselves. Those that are shy, can't really open up to others, but they can think in their own head. Those that are loitering around in their group, probably have social power behind them, and might be able to network etc.
- How powerfully different change really is
Wow, its unimaginable, and thats putting it lightly. The change one goes through, inbetween, two different realities, is MASSIVE. You won't even recognise, be compatible with, or be able to remember, what your reality was like, maybe as soon as an hour or two ago.. Sometimes less.
ESPECIALLY if you are sarging. I could go into a club, bump into a few girls, and within moments, I can't remember even walking into the place, or what my world was like ten minutes ago, cuz its all now now now, buzz buzz buzz, yummm yummm yummm.
You could be writing a love song one minute, get distracted, and start thinking about the canoing lifestyle, get out your canoe, and start pursuing towards your canoing dreams , then you start thinking about your favourite TV show, and get caught up in that..
And before you know it, can you even remember we started at ####ing writing a love song?
Hell no , and you certainly aren't in the mood to write one now! (and god behest, you best not EVER be in the mood to write one, lest my hand find the side of your face )
- How drastically things change "what you think in the beginning doesn't exist in the end"
Literally, what you start with, as your problems and issues, DON'T get solved..
Often, as you improve, you forget what it was like to suck, and remember what it was like to rock.
This is why, people that can do, often make lousy teachers.
You just get so out of touch, and forget what it was like in the beginning.
As one immerses oneself, into the process of improvement, they forget what they are there to solve, and they just start living something better yet completely different than they aimed for.
Yup guys, thats damn right! Realities shift, problems and obstacles are pecieved differently, or forgotten either completely or in aspects, and people simply end up in better mindsets than before.
Bizzare right?
I prefer..
POWERFUL
Haha.. Yeah, your identity changes, as realities change.
Simple way to realise this, is, when I'm in a good mood for sarging, I feel perfect, I am perfect. Infact, its just the reality.
When I'm in a #### mood for sarging, I might be angry, or shell shocked by peoples reactions, and my identity changes to the more mysterious type.
Who I FEEL I am, is absolutely subject to change, and DRASTIC change at that. And with identity, comes MANY powers. Identity, is what is behind "what you choose to do" or "want to do".
So I might, want to cut out carbs from my diet one minute, and be super pumped about it, and no matter how hard I try two hours later, I'll be mister, eat all carbs near by immediately, because its healthy!!!
- How your ability to concieve changes
I'm talking about creativity here, and your ability to pull ideas out of your ass.
This is VERY dependant on your reality. Because generally, a reality is "associative".. Meaning, you can really only conceptualise, things in a color that the glasses you are wearing at the time is in.
Aka, you are wearing rose colored glasses
Or, you are seeing things in all kinds of good ways.
This is BIG, because, quite simply, your ability to concieve of ideas, really does limit you. If you can't concieve of the idea that the world is a sphere, and rotates, and that is why the sun sets and rises, then you got no chance in #### cheese, of coming up with that, until some random guy out of the blue, PROVES it to everyone. You'll just keep assuming, the sun, is rather like a bee, buzzing with heat, yellow, and moving across the sky.
Or some such ####, which ever is closest at hand most likely.
We can miss ANYTHING, even the most obvious things, and its cuz of our reality, and how it changes our ability to concieve of notions and emotions and other realities.
- Establishment, heirarchy and politics
Establishment of social status, and relationships and agreed upon laws etc.. Well they can have a big affect on you.
And their affect on you is mostly determined by your reality, because, most of the time, the attributes of power we deliver to these things, are reality based.
And its natural for us, to implement such power into these things, because they can "immerse us greatly".
Meaning, some hot babe, you'd totally chill with her, and blow off your plans, and just #### around with her right?
So when she walks past, and looks at you, BOOM, like a shuddering earthquake, you can be sucked into that reality, that tangent..
Or you could easily be imbroiled in a muddy political fight, with hans moleman your arch enemy, because he just decides to be a ####wit..
Who knows, but these things are like powerful ####. Especially if they hold potential, like, perhaps "an obsession with blah blah" or "a hassle with blah blah", seems to hold.
But ofcourse, these are only really perceptory.
Because YOUR REALITY, defines the ability of others, and yourself.
Your reality, might just make it impossible for people to really hassle you, or really hard for any girl to be able to hold power over you..
Or it might be the other way around.
- Benifits of councils, time, and shutting up
The thing about other people, is that, because we ourselves, have different realities, someone might just be fighting for something, YOU would fight for, but CAN'T because you are in a different reality than that right now.
I've said "If I'm a dickhead, punch me, I'd probably punch me too, but I'm a dickhead, so I won't let you punch me, so you've gotta beat me"
Why would I say that?
Cuz I realise, that whatever I am at that point in time, I will fight for it. I will be caught up by it.
Time is really effective, because, over time, my reality changes, and I can see something from a different view. And if over time, I see it from many views, it gets more and more valid, and its a pattern. I can trust it more.
Shutting up is awesome, cuz seriously, YOUR REALITY WILL CHANGE!!! And you can't predict it, and you can't even tell, how small minded you are being (usually very)(people are generally VERY FOCUSED, on SMALL little realities).
For example, if I'm listing out the "infinite ways this theory applies" (which is a common fo pah), I probably won't be able to come up with that many, unless its a REALLY good concept.
Then like twenty minutes later, I'll be like "what the hell??!?!!?!" what about all this other ####!!! Gaaaaaaahhhh!!!
Lets take two teens, "going steady" , just to dehumanise the situation a bit .
Anyways, these two teens, one the hottest girl in school, the other a full on nerd.
The nerd tells other guys "gah, its not as good as you'd think, she's just a girl".
The girl is like "its not as bad as you'd think, he's just like any other guy".
One day, the guy is like, #### this, and just dumps the chick and can get her back anytime he wants.
But onlooking other dudes could not do the same.
And he doesn't even realise the power he has.
Well, not really..
Because, you see, these other guys don't realise the power THEY HAVE. They have the power of being turned on by this chick, whereas HE DOES NOT.
EVERYBODY
Everybody, ALWAYS, doesn't realise the power they have, honest to god..
Such are the powers of realities, and the abilities of "how we feel" that comes with it.
Then, in another moment, your reality changes, you don't need sleep for a long while, you are physically fit, and ####ually aroused, in pleasure, and enjoying ####ing.
Certain feelings you can have, that you wouldn't even conceptualise being possible, just ten minutes ago. Ways of being, that you wouldn't of even been able to concieve just moments before.
Hahaha, funny thing this.. I guess I was thinking about, how when a girl gives you "the stare". Cuz she obviously has some head fantasy about you.
You can't just go up and be like "hey, you rock, lets ####", without her having a total reality shift, and going WTF!!!
That #### HAPPENS, and it happens to ME quite often. (seriously dudes, WHOLE VENUES, I just catch EVERYONE looking.. And yet, I know its that ####ed up oneitis look.. Lol)
I mean, mostly, its just that, peoples realities are so specific, and so unique, that it would be near impossible, to act within it, and play the role.. And besides, you'd NEED the reality, to have the ability to do that anyways.
Generally.
You can't just "make up who you are" or how you are gonna act tonight, or "how things are".. Hahaha, no no no
Something will just come along and bust up your little parade, and you probably won't even know why it has SUCH an affect on you to change.. But it does..
Well I'll let you in on a little hint, realities dynamically interact, and seriously, YOU CAN'T PREDICT the unusually unique feelings, that you will be able to concieve, because a person gives you a little bit of their reality (through their ability to affect you).
An awesome chick that vibes great, might just have that ability to make you vibe yourself, and before you know it, you are the man, that excited her, to vibe in the first place. (self fufilling prophecy is what its often called.. but thats a crap term). Ability, affects reality, reality affects ability.
Hahaha, realities, are kinda like ponds, and you are like a fish in it.
Most people that think this or that, they are just a big fish, in a really small pond.
According to their experience, that is recently acrewed, they are this or that, or the world is this or that..
But really we are all just big fishes, in small ponds. All the damn time.
And its a weakness we ALL share.
Way to just get chucked into the bear pit.
Old dude: (pushes him into bear pit)
Guy: I immediately regret saying that! (####s himself as bears surround him)
Alot of people don't realise that, cuz its unsual to think that, our "normal" feelings, can change, and become "uniquely different, like we have never experienced before".
Meaning, there are all kinds of feeling normal..
And the highest form of it, is when you feel like you've mastered something. Like an olympic ice skater.. They just go onto the ice, and its normal for them, the amazing feelings just are..
They know nothing more, than just freedom and being themself.
There is so many nuances and different twists to "feeling normal" its astounding, and you won't be able to imagine it.
Like I said earlier, generally what happens when you solve a problem, is you become immersed in something better, and forget what was of the past.
You could simply call this "moving on", and it is more powerful, and more consistant than "solution solution solution to everything!!!".
I mean, if its not immediately available, what can you do?
Pfffft, not much
Well, even in this post, you watched me come down from a high reality, into a more subdued, possibly more explainatory reality.
Realities, do have an impact on "ability" which has an impact on affect.
Yup..
Thats right..
Whilst a guy like me, in a good mood, can just feel the air thicken, and a person will turn around, and smile.
Its a ####in weird thing.
Its just random, unique, ####, that you are never going to come across again, most likely.
Why?
Cuz thats how you fix problems
Or didn't you learn anything
Hope you enjoyed
Think opening that chick with a kiss is a good idea, and you might be right.. Think its impossible to open with a kiss, and you might be right also.
