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For me, this is a major problem. Basically, I'm not satisfied with where I'm at now.
Just a short summary of where I'm at in life:
I'm 23 years old still living with my parents. I recently broke up with a GF of five years due to a nasty drug habit which she sucked me into. During those five years, we've isolated from society in general. My life was completely cenetered around my relationship with her and our drugs. She sucked about 60-70g's from me during our time together. My comfort building skills suck. I'm a pretty good looking guy with solid body language», eye contact, etc.
But, my conversational skills are ####ed.
You guys have the "tribe elder" status here. Well, I could surely be an "AFC elder".
Prior to this relationship my social skills we're top notch. I would consider myself a "natural". A "natural" could easily #### himself up socially just as anyone else could. Believe me.
I'm on the path to get my life together where I will be satisfied with it but I surely want to get some #### until then.
When I speak to a HB with an intention to #### her, essentially what I'm doing is bringing her into my reality. And when I think my reality sucks, how would I still bring her into it?
Is it possible to overlook the lack of confidence that you have in regards to your life in general while still exuding the confidence which is the crucial in picking up chicks?
I've heard it said that in order to be a successful PUA one must be 100% confident about they're life in general. Your career, social status, finances, etc.
