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Number close as much as possible and solidify it as a complete habit. IOW, every time you are interested in the chick for whatever reason # close.
Meet at least one qualified chick a week for followup later. You're aiming for one day-two a week. (pick up was day one - duh)
Always try to pull girls to another venue once in set no matter the situation. Get smaller compliance first then pull pretty soon afterward. If no, then get number every time and depending on the situation try to play it out that night or get a day 2 set up for later.
Be more direct in your followups as well. Good directness in approaches, why not follow ups?
Start double-booking girls/groups for weekend nights out.
Make new pivots. Make new wings.
Expand social circle.
Focus on vibing and push/pull when interacting with chicks. Qualifying or leading her when not doing one of those. Stories used mostly to get something sincere about yourself across NOT for entertainment value.
Looks may be maximized. Possibly get better fitting clothes and start dressing down when appropriate. Can't always rock the collared shirts. Get a little trimmer before summer hits. Find a couple more accents.
Find and approach in appropriate day time venues. Found one VERY qualified location. Need probably a couple more.
Join some regular group activity that increases either your attractiveness or offers a chance to meet women.
Start screening/qualifying way quicker once in set.
Opening indirect is fine but give IOI's or go direct very quickly once you have qualified her.
Never qualify yourself. If you approach a certain way hold to it until the end. Better to let them go for rapport then you.
Open and leave. Open and leave. Especially early in the night.
No neediness. The biggest place I screw up here is calling chicks when they were supposed to call me or re-initiating contact when I supposedly nexted. Now there's not much I can do about the feelings but I need to get even tighter on raining in my actions. Regardless of the feelings you do whatever is the right move at that moment. Also feelings can be improved by always having other productive activities to do.
Don't burn bridges unless she actually ####s up. Her playing hard-to-get or even being disinterested is NOT a #### up. It CAN be a reason to pivot her immediately. But don't burn bridges just because your feelings got involved.
Always split tabs. I'd been doing this for a long time and recently switched to paying for the girls I liked. I don't think it's a good idea. Switch back to always splitting.
If the vibe is REALLY good and you have compliance you can buy her a drink. Easy, natural way is for her to follow you up to the bar and you leading/vibing with her the whole way. Leading, kino and isolation all in one swoop.
And of course, more same night pulls than in 2008.
These are my initial thoughts on how to improve in 2009:
