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I would like to hear suggestions and input from posters who consider themselves of a very high level to give their $0.02 on my list. In return, I've posted these thoughts here which I believe can be of great benefit to those seeking self-improvement.
From the elements which have made my own success and from the incredible success of the massively fruitful PUAs from Sheffield Lair who I now spend a great deal of time communicating with, modelling, and shamelessly leeching personality off; I have constructed this list of the core elements of a master of the game.
Two of these people...
D, has been in the game for 7 years. He has a 4 year LTR with a girl who he introduced to game when she was 18 and has trained up from there - she now games other girls with him on a regular basis and threesomes with attractive girls happen easily for them. On top of that, D gets regular ONS and Day 2 lays on his own. Without getting too personal, D is below average height and older than your average player.
V has been in the game a much shorter period of time. He came into it 2 years ago with a great deal of romantic ability and social circle game, but has since gained massive ability in approaching and closing. His lays tend to result from day 2s, and he's still improving, but lessons can be learnt from his absolute determination to succeed and his self-constructed social freedom. Not only is V a good model for game determination, but his very imminent success in the business world is clear to anyone with eyes and a brain.
The only people who may disagree with this list are naturals, who I would encourage to spare me thier critisism - it's well known that naturals are notoriously poor at self-analysis and understanding concepts of self-improvement.
The components of a master of seduction
Self – deriving pleasure from the conquering of the self
You are driven by the fulfilling pleasure from over-coming and conquering the self. The true battle is within one’s own mind.
Highly successful people are driven by the challenge; they love the challenge as much as the reward.
You love the battle, as much as you love to conquer yourself.
In my opinion deriving pleasure from the conquest of the self is the "hidden secret" of Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich. You should understand that if I am right and you see this, then you could be on the path to incredible success.
But if you think I'm wrong, when in-fact I'm actually right, then you've just made a mental mistake which you may regret years into the future.
Desire – change and success begin with a burning desire
Within your mind is a burning desire to see rapturous pleasure on beautiful faces; the desire to be surrounded by a harem of female energy and the desire to fulfil the inner fantasies and pleasures of millions of girls.
Turning thought into reality, is just to make this desire so strong and so burning that it occupies obsession in your mind.
Reality – positive thoughts mean a positive existence
You understand that your beliefs define your reality – your reality is defined by your mind. Therefore you obsess about successful strategies, default assume the positive, reframe the negative, and blindly forget that which does nothing to serve you.
State – the production of emotions
You habitually feel good positive feelings such as happiness, motivation, bravery, and satisfaction.
You are able to choose your state if required.
You are wealthy in the commodity of emotions, and you understand that producing these emotions is involved in the process of giving them to others.
Frame – dominating your own reality
You paste your will onto the world and live in your own reality. Your awareness radius should give a strong impression of the demands of your will.
This process is to filter out unproductively, such as worthless ruminating, from your reality, so leaving only the progress you make through action.
Status – self-awareness of status
You are aware of your status and how it alters dependant on your actions. You naturally move towards high status positions.
(In-Field example : you are aware of how-long you can remain standing and talking to a seated 2-set, or how long can you "hover" around a table of HBs. You are aware of your focus being on your group and your immediate surroundings (AFCs look around all the time because their own lives and friends are boring) etc etc.)
Value – the reward you offer
You take a position of one who expects no value, but bestows value upon those around him. You naturally qualify and compliance test those followers around you – rewarding them with emotions, kino, interest, and escalation; and becoming disinterested in those who fail to comply.
You also know that when a girl qualifies to you or passes one of your tests she is in-fact actively seducing you. Vibe – an addictive form of communication
You are a master of the ability to vibe, with ease. Your vibe alone is addictive, but ultimately vibing allows you to plan your next move – like dangling the fish on the hook while you work out how to reel her in.
Bravery – an important reward from the battle with your self
You understand that bravery is a key resource for improving the game. The master seducer can be comfortable with his success, but the one who wants to learn more requires bravery to exit their comfort zone.
From start to finish bravery is at one time needed to approach, to stick around, to escalate, to persist, to close, to extract, and finally, to have good sex.
Bravery is about over-comming your self... see above.
Creativity – utilising new methods, and inventing techniques
You creatively invent new methods to achieve your goals, and you implement those methods on the fly – efficiently testing them, evaluating them, and then altering, ditching, or re-using them.
Fitness, health and style
A relatively simple area to maximise, but one that you understand gives you yet another edge.
I haven't got my harem just yet, but I have a good grasp of the reality and skills required to get there. This post is for my benefit.
Presence – the control of your mind
Your mind is usually in the present moment – in touch with what is happening right now and manifesting the results you desire.