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1. The basic question should always be: "Is this good for me?"
The question is NEVER: How can I get together with this girl? Does she like me? Why won't she answer my calls? Those questions lead straight to dependence, and away from your happiness.
If you have to answer with a qualification -- "She is good for me, but . . . (she's crazy, I haven't hooked up with her yet, I can't trust her)" -- she's not good for you.
2. It doesn't matter how hot the girl is. She's not an HB. She's a ZERO until she works to make you happy.
The first thing that most guys think when they see a girl is "she's hot, she's an 9, wokka wokka wokka." This is self-defeating. It immediately puts a guy in the AFC position of being in awe of a girl.
It's obviously better if the girl is more attractive. Ugly girls aren't worth your time. But no matter how great she looks, she's still an SB0 (selfish bitch zero) until she proves that she's giving, generous, kind, and sexual with you. Ranking girls from SB0 to GG10 (giving girl 10) puts your needs first, where they belong. All this talk about HBs and 1 to 10 hotness scales is nonsense that puts women on pedestals.
3. When you talk to a girl, the goal is to screen her.
The goal is NOT to impress her or to get her to like you. The goal is to screen her for compatibility. She's compatible when it's fun to talk to her, it's easy to get together with her again, and you two have sex by the end of the first few dates, at the latest.
If there are headaches or all kinds of complications about getting together or having sex, she has failed the compatibility test. She's an SB0.
There are many compatible girls, but only if you don't waste time with the incompatible ones.
4. Never take anything personally. It's a numbers game.
The best salespeople always approach selling as a numbers game. They tell themselves, "I have to contact 10 potential clients to make a sale, so I'm going to call 100 people and make 10 sales today."
They don't think: "I have to make this next sale. If I don't, I'm a terrible salesman, and I'll never succeed at sales." They certainly don't tell themselves: "This potential client is so special, she's the one. I'm going to think about no one else."
Never approach women as a matter of rejection or acceptance. It's a matter of numbers -- you talk to so many girls, a certain percentage will prove compatible, and you'll have sex with them. Don't take the reaction of any one girl personally. If she's not good for you, the faster you move on, the faster you'll meet a girl who is compatible.
5. Go to where it's easy to meet good, giving girls.
You wouldn't fish in a desert, would you? Obviously, you should go where the fish are.
Restaurants are great at dinnertime, especially if you can sit at the bar, but late at night the bars and clubs are full of selfish bitch zeros. Think of the kind of girls who go out at 2 in the morning. Usually, ones you can't trust, and who are eventually going to get fat from drinking.
Compare the girls you might meet in a fitness or yoga class. They're more likely to be giving and very fit. All the endorphins pumping through their system makes them calmer yet hornier.
5. Women should never be the number 1 thing in your life. They really don't deserve it.
Making women the number 1 priority leads to treating them as most important or obsessing about them. This is the path to desperation and dependence.
When women are a lower priority, it's easier to be relaxed around them, and to be clear-headed enough to decide which women are good for you, and which ones are not (see rule 1). This will make it easier to meet compatible women who make you happier, as opposed to wasting time chasing SB0s. Ironically, by making women a lower priority, you'll meet better women.
A lot of the advice on the board can be complex, and hard to remember in practice. I wanted to distill a few important points.
