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Why?
Because even if there's only ONE woman where you live, there are still hundreds, if not THOUSANDS of men out there who are naturally good with women: "naturals." It doesn't matter how big your town is: every town has one...
A regular of some sleezy bar who liquors himself up...and just has to talk to as much women that enter "his bar" as he can.. or the old, retired fisherman who seems to be sitting on that one, particular half broken down bench near the center of town..that has a million and one stories about the women he seduced on his boat..or the the doorman of some fancy restaurant, club or whatever who only allows women in for a favor here and a favor there..who ends up knowing HALF the town personally, especially the women who want to go out and party..
Now with naturals..the skills, the stories, the experience is REAL. And they come in all kinds of shapes and colors: 16 years old, Asians, old and grey, midgets...so never underestimate ANY man, because he may damn well be someone who can teach you many PRICELESS things about women...
But how do you meet a natural anyway?
The whole point here is: you'll have to discover whether or not he has skills with women, because it could be anyone...I've met and befriended dozens of men who were naturally good with women, and I've noticed a couple of things..
1) All the true naturals out there invented a way to make a women winning weapon out of THEIR unique circumstances: if he's a fisherman, he invents a way to meet and date all the women he wants with a boat and at the docks and ports for example. KEY insight here is that they've been doing it for years and years and years, I know some who're in the game for 20 years...they perfected what they're doing. Beats the average dating guru I would say, unless he learned from the naturals himself.
2) They truly have a love for women, for the game of meeting and dating them..the game of seduction..and they would give up anything to pursue it if they didn't already have: the smartest kid accepts a job as a cleaner if it means he can master meeting and women that way. And if you show a guy you have a love for women, for the game too? You're halfway there, because you'll be a brother in arms to them and they'll start to tell their stories.
3) Everybody has some vanity, so if you stroke their egos and tell them how great, how world-class their game is..if you show all your interest and ask for stories..and tell them that you want to learn it for yourself? They'll teach you. In fact, I've never met a single natural in my life who REFUSED to teach me..
We're not through yet...they don't even have to agree with teaching anyways because their stories will rub off on you. If you befriend them and hang out with them, you'll start to IMITATE their game..copy some of their walks, their talks, their ways..
Be conscious about it too: go out with them and SEE what that he does has effect on women..and imitate ALL of the successfull moves. Practice makes perfect - so after a while you've made those moves into routines, until you start to do it naturally..and when you're finally there, you can meet women with your eyes closed..you'll actually start to have trouble doing something ELSE in your life..
I've seen it happen before, and to be brutally honest here..it has happened to me.
The devil's in the details though, and most naturals will have a hard time EXPLAINING what it is about what they do that's so successfull with women - because they do it BY NATURE. So don't get shortsighted and befriend MULTIPLE naturals..hang out with them around the clock, 24/7 and pay close attention, until you start to see patterns behind WHY their behaviors are successfull.
Remember that they all made their unique situation work to get women, which means they're ALL your master in some area - it's up to you to combine it all. Never underestimate the experience of the other guy...test the waters and see if he has game first, and then talk.
Befriend everyone who has game, because they're all your master in some area...and you'll be able to learn from the masters of seduction 24/7..
There are ALWAYS opportunities for learning how to
meet women my friend...even if you can't buy the books or the seminars or even the entry and the drinks of a club.
