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In conversation, the one girl says about me:
"Klutch seems like the type of guy who - no matter what you say, or what you want him to do, he's going to do what he wants anyway."
A huge grin spread across my face as I leaned back in my chair, cocked my head back and emitted a huge laugh while clapping my hands loudly, saying, "Yes, it's true. You can't change me!"
Girls can smell an Alpha man from a mile away. It doesn't matter how nice I am, or how much I convince a girl that I'm really a true gentleman at heart, they still know deep down they are dealing with a man who is impossible to tame, impossible to change, and downright uncontrollable.
I could try to convince my girlfriend all day long that I'm a "good guy" and deep down she still knows who I really am - a guy who does whatever the hell he wants.
The point is that I don't think that guys should be concerned about "being too nice" unless they are expecting something in return. It's fine to be nice as long as you TRULY don't expect shit from it.
Have you noticed that bad boys sometimes actually do seemingly AFC things, yet for some reason, doing these things does not reduce the girl's interest at all? Why is that? Because these guys DO WHATEVER THEY WANT TO DO, JUST BECAUSE THEY WANT TO DO IT - NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE EXPECTING SOMETHING IN RETURN FROM THE GIRL.
Quit trying to be fake. Don't "try" to "show" you have social proof or that you are Alpha. Don't go out of your way to "make a girl realize" that you are a prize. That is a useless waste of energy because it only takes a short amount of time for a girl to figure out who you really are anyway.
If you simply move with the drive that comes from your heart, and do WHATEVER YOU WANT, then nothing else matters! Not now, not 10 years from now!
It doesn't matter that my girl knows embarrassing secrets about me, or even that I TRULY LOVE HER.
If you really are an Alpha man, then a woman is going to have that intuition about you. It won't change. True Alpha men NEVER, EVER CHANGE and neither will a woman's perception of you.
For a long, long time I found myself plagued with worry about such bullshit as "being too nice" so I would purposely avoid doing nice things as a means of constantly showing that I was an Alpha dude. I got so caught up reading info on this site, and reading seduction materials that I actually THOUGHT I WAS AN AFC.
It's like psychology students who read up so much on mental problems they think they have them.
Truth is, I REALLY LIKE DOING NICE THINGS FOR MY GIRL FROM TIME TO TIME. It makes ME feel happy. I'm not trying to please the girl - but seeing her happy pleases me!
For example:
The other week I won an ipod through a raffle at work party. I already have one, but my girlfriend doesn't. So, next time she was over, I gave it to her.
Her face lit up like a little girl who just got a puppy. She wrapped her arms around my neck and peppered my face with kisses. Then she says: YOU ARE SUCH A SWEET GUY.
SHAME ON ME FOR BEING SUCH AN AFC RIGHT??
After that, I fucked the living shit out of her. While laying in bed, she says, "What'd you do on Saturday?"
I said, "Rode out to the beach with my buddies, partied till 5 in the morning and slept at my friend's house."
The look of slight worry appeared on her face as the statement made by the girl from lunch echoed in her mind....
"No matter what, he does whatever he wants anyway..."
The point is:
Don't hold back on generosity if this is your true nature. Don't think that doing "nice" things is "bad".
Showing love, being nice, being caring is ONLY bad if you are doing it with EXPECTATIONS.
Who agrees???
The other day I was at lunch with two girls from work.
