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Let's just face it, I'm 28 years old, have no children, am pretty attractive if I say so myself and I am likewise intelligent. But I am constantly having trouble with women. I know this is something that men like me say a lot but I know that I am different than many of those guys, for sure. Why, you may ask? Because unlike most men, I actually have a clue as to what exactly is wrong with me. Seriously. It took me about seven years to figure it all out. Why I am so shy around women, why do I get so passive and possibly scared when it comes to approaching women, why I always seem to be picky all the time. It's because all this time, I have always felt that what I wanted to feel towards women was considered a shameful thing, Not because of religion or any other sort of conservative beliefs, but because while I was growing up, I would always hear women on TV or on the street or around my household, go on and on saying the following:
-That men are no good.
Having to hear that every day of my life made me very self-conscious about women. I grew up my entire life trying to be a completely different person than what I felt that was expected to be. I simply didn't want to be described as one of those guys. I was absolutely convinced that if I was different from the kind of men that they were used to, they would see me as this "diamond in the rough." Maybe they won't think that I am all about sex. I tried being this true gentleman that had all the respect in the world for women and after all that, I got nothing in return. So I started reading books and searching the internet fourms for info about what women want. Needless to say it was completely different from what I always believed about women. But when I tried to apply such material to my love life, and who know how much I tried over the years, I was left with even less success than before. Before long I ended up suffering from depression without any reason at all. But it was at that time that I discovered a few things about why I was always miserable, especially around women.
A few days ago, I was talking to this cute little lady that I worked with. I was actually able to get her number after all that, would you believe that? You would think that was a good thing right? Well not exactly. The next day after I realized that her number was REAL, in addition to the fact that I was working with her and had interest in her, I became so scared and so insecure in my self that she was able to notice it right away. You should know what happened after that. After that, I found out why I became so insecure. It turns out that all these years of hearing these Gung-ho Lesbo Feminist Bitches and all these bitter no-man having hags talk all this bullshit about men had made me feel guilty about wanting to be with a woman. That guilt likely resulted in me having social anxiety which in turn resulted in years of depression.
So this leads to perhaps the biggest sticking point that I ever had to deal with. This is how I always felt about women in my mind and this is no bullshit:
I love women, always have, always will. I love looking at women, I love being in the presence of a woman, I love her scent, I love her smell, I love the touch of a woman. Women to me are sexual beings whose sole purpose in their existence is to be fucked by guys like me. I'm not saying that women should be in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant, everyday, I'm just saying that they should be in the bedroom with my dick in their mouths at the end of the day. They can and should do whatever they want otherwise. But it won't matter to me if I am not fucking them.
The problem with that is that I really believe this but can't over this guilt that I feel towards women. I know everything I can possibly learn about attracting women but I'm sick of feeling embarrassed every time I am looking at a woman's body. I'm sick of flinching when a woman touches me, I want to see a woman flash me and not feel like a pervert for looking. Most importantly I WANT TO FUCK! No ifs, ands or buts.
If there is some way I can do away with this guilt, there would be absolutely nothing that will restrain me. I would like to know your thoughts on the matter.
Have you ever felt guilty over something that should be completely natural?
-All men are dogs/pigs/whatever animal they would use to describe men
-Men don't think of nothing but sex.
-Men only care about sex.
-Men only see women as sex objects.
-Men have no respect for women.
-Men are egotistical.
-Men are jerks.
-Men are good for nothing
