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So many chances to lump ourselves back into the fray with all the afcs.
So many chances to kill intrigue, lose attraction, etc
One thing that I notice a lot in my interaction with girls is the chance to say SOMETHING that she has heard a million times and is quite annoying to her (works for both genders)
The movie example that is the pefect example of this is in the movie Swingers when Mike and Trent go meet two girls at the bar (The waitress from earlier and her friend, an actress who plays Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz.) And everyone is happy to be getting the chance to interact with some new and hopefully interesting people.
Mike gets the introduction and his first instinct is to say “It looks like we’re not in Kansas anymore” Just like every chode in the world would say thinking it’s going to be comedic gold.
The vibe is KILLED.
This is real life city for people who have been socialized in a modern society. The opportunity for this to happen sometime during an interaction is great.
We have been educated. We have friends. We also have been influenced through aspects such as the media even if we aren’t consciously aware of it in certain situations.
We are anchored to think of certain things when we hear certain things. So it will be the first thing we think of (potentially say) when you hear/see a certain word/phrase/date/picture/whatever that is associated to something we've become familiar with.
When I am in the zone I pretty much don’t do any thinking of whether I should say this or that. It just comes out. But there is a slight chance not to say it.
When certain situations that arise that are going to be vibe killers I have to try to NOT say it when it comes to mind because it will only hurt me.
Let me show you all some real life example that have happen to me rather recently.
I meet a hot bodied Indian girl recently and somehow it comes up that her birthday is September 11th. Yeah that one is obvious as fuck too.
I go on a day 2 and her friend happens to be there for the first 15 minutes (Fucking great! But I can handle it.) Turns out she is from Kazakhstan. I’m sure she dreads telling people where she is from because of the Borat madness.
In all of these incidents I had the opportunity to make a fool of myself and categorize myself with all the genius’ from before. In all of these incidents you can imagine how many times they have heard:
So avoid situations like this. Don't be THAT GUY.
Hell, sometimes out of curiousity I ask how many times they must have heard the thing that I thought of and gave it the opposite spin
"OMG. I have to ask. How many losers have called you Mona Lisa in your life,a million? I bet they thought that was the most original shit of all time, huh?" LOL. She is like "OMG, I KNOW!!!" and more rapport is built.
There, I seperated myself by resisting the urge to say what initially popped into my head and I am better off for it!
We’ve all been there. But we don’t have to go down that road anymore. Sometimes we think we are just being funny, but we are being the 1000th guy to say the same thing or act the same way. Let’s not be that guy.
This is one time NOT to trust your first instinct.
There are so many opportunities during an interaction to just kill the positive, fun vibe.
I meet a very cute girl named Mona. What comes to mind when that is first heard? Yes, you guessed it, Mona Lisa.
1. HAHAHA OMG, MONA , YOU’RE NEW NICKNAME IS MONA LISA!
2. WOW. That sucks yo! September 11th, how do you enjoy your BDAY!?!? (As she thinks, well I had 14 birthdays that we’re marvelous before that…what an idiot)
3. WHOAAA, just like that movie!!! (Starts quoting it) (As she thinks, what an idiot)
If I had said it I probably would have gotten a double blow out LOL
