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On the verbal level we all know sexual shock & awe works very well. It's a nice positive verbal challenge to balance out your quick physical aggressiveness.
ie: caressing her ass while saying "stop being so sexy... it's not going to work on me"
Put simply, you are blaming your ass caressing (an aggressive physical move) on her. It's her fault. This frame helps you escalate while remaining a challenge. You won't always need to use it, but it's an option.
But I have also noticed during end game that a certain kind of challenge I will just call "Resisting Yourself" is a great way to PROACTIVELY bypass any potential asd or last minute resistance.
- going to kiss her but then biting your lip instead
This works so well because she likes that you are turned on but NOT needy. You are in CONTROL of yourself and your body. In other words she interprets your self-restraint in this moment of extreme sexual desire as proof you are biologically safe to fuck. Neediness is a BIG warning sign not to have sex with someone.
The real genius is besides proactively reducing asd and lmr I believe this strategy of escalation mixed with self-control can also overcome "mediocre interest". Meaning RY can help you convert more of the girls you pulled into full isolation quickly (but didn't do a solid job of attracting at the bar) into lays.
But don't be fooled. This is no PASSIVE approach. You are NOT waiting around for an opportunity to resist her so you can look like a challenge. This rarely happens anyway because girls don't and shouldn't be making the the first move on you when you are alone together.
You still always make the first move by caressing her in a sexual way. But since you are also the one to pull back first and you at least LOOK like you are struggling to resist her, you actually DO become the resist-er in her mind. She is now chasing you.
RY is very important in quick seductions. You can lose her just as fast as you got her. Sometimes guys will do something really innocent that she interprets as needy. When a womans neediness detector goes off after only knowing a guy for 30 minutes, she immediately freaks out and thinks "what the hell am I doing here". She either leaves in a hurry or all of your following escalations end up going nowhere. Think hours of lmr and no sleep.
This is why it is CRUCIAL to start resisting yourself at the beginning of your full isolation escalation ladder. After fooling around for a few minutes it will be too late to set this frame. Also RY isn't something you do for hours, although I guess you could. It should only take about 1-2 minutes of resisting yourself before the TENSION snowballs into hardcore caressing and grinding that leads to close flying off.
Remember, this one extra minute can literally save you hours!
Being really turned on but totally in control of yourself and your body, combined with an "I don't give a fuck if we have sex or not" attitude will help you improve your end game no matter how fast you pulled the girl.
Be a Tease!
Don't wait for resistance. Be proactive. Resist yourself!
ie.
- breathing heavy on her neck but then forcing yourself to stop short of licking it
- caressing her body with a wild look in your eyes but then struggling with yourself to pull away and stop
