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As a RAFC I am glad that this community exists and that it enabled me to shed many 'Beta' traits.
A little about me ...
I am in my late 30's, successful businessman, married (don't flame me for moral reasons - I have come to grips with this being something that I am okay with - don't wish to debate morals here) and until recently unsure of my full potential. I attended an Ivy League college and am very successful in my chosen profession, but until recently thought that women should be placed on pedestals. Thankfully I found this site, and moved from a provider to an Alpha. I realize that women want good sex just as much as men, and that it is okay to state your needs very clearly.
I want to thank Maj for inspiration.
This LR occurred out of town several weeks ago and utilizes many of the techniques expoused here.
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I travel often for business and recently found myself in Atlanta. The city has many large conventions that attract people from all over the United States. I happened to find myself staying at a hotel that hosted one of these conventions.
I typically dress very well - expensive suits (think Brioni, Kiton), recognizable high end watch (Cartier / Rolex) and expensive silk ties with interesting shirts. Peacocking can be done in many ways. This evening, my look was suave and my demeaner was one that said I was a fun, but mysterious man ...
Around 11pm, I rolled out of the hotel bar and took the escalator to the level where the convention's meeting rooms were. A late night reception was in full force and although they were serving drinks outside, I could see that the real target rich environment was inside one of the ballrooms, where there were tables set up and dancing going on to some 1980's songs.
Looking at the convention attendees, I could see that there were roughly the same number of men as women, and that at this particular convention, the men were mainly beta chodes ... in other words, easy pickings for someone armed with the skills from mASF! I also stood out from the pack. My gray suit, white french cuff shirt and yellow tie, contrasted with the casual outfit of most men at this convention. In other words, I stood out in a big way.
Spotting a group walking into the ballroom, I slipped in past the people looking for badges by talking with one of the women in the back of the group, HBEntry, and walking in while talking with her.
M_Dawg: "So, what is this? an 1980's flashback party?"
At this point I could see that she was seeking validation, so wickedly, I let her come to papa ...
M_Dawg: "Okay ... (pause for effect) ... prove it!"
For most of my life I lived the straight and narrow way. Coloring within the lines, obeying the speed limit, letting pedestrians cross the street. I would no sooner start talking to a group of attractive women with nothing immediately in common. I was that squeaky-clean man who upheld society's standards. Now I could see that there was another way, I could be a dangerous and oh so much more interesting man ... cue Jethro Tull's "Aqualung" ... as the song starts - "Sitting on a park bench, eyeing little girls with bad intent ... ah , but I digress ...
M_Dawg: "Yes of course! I am not going to stay alone in a hotel room, rocking and moaning, naked, with a bowl of Jello, watching the TV while others in this city are out having a good time!" smiling all the while I delivered this line.
She immediately started laughing and I tickled her to keep her at it. She loved it and was falling into me. So I took the chnace to grab her by the hand and HBEntry by the hand and dragged them out onto the dance floor. Now I am not a great dancer by any stretch of the imagination, but sometimes when you have that energy going, you just need to trust your instincts. We danced for about 45 minutes and talked some more. It became clear to me that the group HBEntry and HBTickles was with was very close and that although they were having fun, no one was down with peeling out of the group, so after a while I parted gracefully and went hunting for some more fresh meat. What was great, was that HBEntry and HBTickles were with 4 other HBs and 2 chodes (who if they negged me, only made them look like bigger chodes, as I clearly was a fun person to be around) and so throughout the next half hour, they were a great pivot, telling others that I was crashing the event. The band stopped at midnight and they were in the process of closing down the makeshift bar when I came across my target for the rest of the evening - HBMILF. Now at this point I had had a very good time, went out dancing and having fun with complete strangers, and would have been okay retiring for the evening, but a little voice inside of me said - "Go on, what do you have to lose?"
HBMILF was part of a threesome, and I would rate her a 7.5, her friends UGFriendly (5) and UGWhatever (4.5) were there with her. I decided to open them and ask them what brought them to town - which in and of itself was a totally ridiculous question, since the only people in this ballroom, outsid eof the hotel staff and myself were part of this convention.
HBMILF: "We are here for the convention, aren't you?"
This is playing to my strengths as I often travel to the city and have gotten to know several bartenders across the city. I said:
M_Dawg: "Sure, have you been to in Midtown? It a hip place, but I'm not sure you're hip enough to go there..." negging her out of the gate.
Now I knew a sexy bartender at this place that worked the VIP table at the club I suggested and had been flirting with her for several months. Going there in the VIP section would serve to DHV me immediately, but in hindsight, the logistics were poor. The convention was downtown, the club was midtown, although it would serve as a cool venue change, might have let energy sap as well. UGFriendly came up with a better plan:
UGFriendly: "Let's go to this Irish bar around the corner, seems like a good place to get hammered"
When she said this, I knew 1) she was DTF, and 2) I was in as long as I didn't screw things up. I should note that my target, HBMILF, was sporting a ring on her finger, and that despite the four of us doing a shot, she seemed completely sober.
Knowing that the place was a local spot, I decided to go along, but suspected that it would have a low amount of energy. We walked the one block to the bar, and sure enough, the place was dead. We ordered a round of beers (and I only paid for my own, thank you very much mASF!). We all went to the back of the bar, where they had a pool table - instant opportunity to kino (thanks JohnnyC for inspiration!) and my opponent HBMILF decided to start trash talking me. I said that I only had time to play one game, and that we had to have a proper wager. HBMILF and I move off to the side as my partner breaks. She says quietly to me.
HBMILF: "You know, I am a good kisser..."
Now this whole exchange was us talking quietly, side-by-side, arms gently touching. This was the first real kino I had with HBMILF. Now a year ago, if you had asked me if I would be in a distant city, flirting with a married woman over a game of pool that I had met just a 1/2 hour before at a convention party that I had crashed solo, I would have replied that you were out of your mind. But now the whole thing seemed so natural, that I barely gave any thought to it. My cocky and funny light banter (excess dialouge ommitted) kept me as an interesting prospect, and I kept an aloof distance as if I didn't care what the outcome would be (which I didn't). This non-needy approach made me in retrospect so much more desirable.
Now it didn't hurt that HBMILF and here partner UGWhatever absolutely sucked at pool. It gave me ample opportunities to neg them on there game. Between turns, HBMILF planted herself next to me, giving me ample opportunities to "accidentally" brush her breast with my upper arm as I leaned in for shots or walked past her. All the time I could see that she was eating up my cocky attitude. When the time came for me to sink the last shot, she could see my broad, shit-eating grin. Now UGFriendly and UGWhatever wanted to play another game of pool. I motioned with my head to a secluded wooden booth in the far corner and darkest plart of the bar. I slide in first and HBMILF slid in after me. Now up to this point although I had used strong eye contact and dominate body language» we didn't have much kino or even much dialouge. I just had strong frame and was completely consistent. Again, at this point I didn't care about the outcome and in my AFC days would have stopped pursuing an outcome. But not tonight, no not tonight ...
M_Dawg: "I believe we had a wager ..." smiling devilishly
HBMILF goes DDB - I lean in slowly, cup her head in my hand, and give her a long deep proper kiss. And slowly pull away, while staring deep into her eyes.
HBMILF: "I've never felt this way before about someone."
At this point I kissed her again, a short, but intense makeout session ensued.
I could see that HBMILF was talking to herself in her mind, trying to figure out a way to make this seem right to her - I knew that what I did here would be critical to overcoming any ASD.
HBMILF: "But I just met you. You could be an axe murderer. Show me your drivers license."
I could see that she was seeking comfort, so if this is what she needed, I gladly showed her my license.
HBMILF: "I've never done anything like this before ... are you always so suave?"
And I nodded towards the door. In one simple command I showed complete dominance. HBMILF walked over to her friends and indicated that she was leaving.
In the short (1 block) walk to the hotel, we were acosted by a homeless man begging for money. I was walking with my arm around her and my right hand resting on her ass. The homeless man said something about "beautiful lovers".
In the hotel lobby, she insisted that we buy a cold bottle of water. I complied - it was, after all for a good cause
In the elevator, I slammed her up against the wall and kissed her passionately, coming up for air, only when we reached my floor. I took her by the hand and open the door. Inside I again pinned her up against the wall and ran my hands up her entire, smoking body. Here I ran into the token LMR. As it was 1:15 in the morning, I had some stubble. She asked that I shave. So I took off my top and undershirt, went to the bathroom sink, and slowly shaved, while she watched me the entire time. I took this as a step to build comfort, not a compliance test on her part.
I moved over to HBMILF kissed her some more, while slowly removing her clothes. No LMR. I pushed her back onto the bed and was all set to go down on her, when she apologized to me and indicated that it was that time of the month. I said I didn't have any issues and after some more making out, I rolled onto my back and she proceeded to give me a first rate blow job. I blew a load all over her face and tits. I strapped on a condom flipped her on her back, pinned her hands above her head, and proceeded to properly fuck her - pounding her until she screamed my name again and again. Her pussy was so tight - I could tell it had been a while since she had been properly fucked. I teased her pussy with the head of my penis, and made her beg me to put my entire cock inside of her. We changed positions many times and I came 4 times, while she came three time. At 4:30 in the morning, sweaty and out of breath, I finally let her shower and sent her on her way. She did the walk of shame back to her room, which she was sharing with UBFriendly and UGWhatever.
Keys to the lay:
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HBEntry: "It's a convention for . You know we really don't get out much."
M_Dawg: "I suspected as much, really looks like a lot of nerds here ....", negging her by association.
HBEntry: "That's not true! Most of us are really cool!"
HBEntry: "Come meet my friends!" taking me by the arm and pulling me over to a packed table. Don't discount the value of an HB pulling you into a group - instant Social Proof!
HBTickles: "So how do you know HBEntry?" she asked as I sat down at HBEntry's table.
M_Dawg: "Just met her - I'm really just crashing this party and using you all for free drinks ..."
HBTickles: "Really! You would crash a convention, alone?" she seemed genuinely surprised that someone would have the balls to go out alone and to walk in uninvited.
M_Dawg: "No - I'm just crashing this shindig, seeing if there is anything interesting going on ..."
HBMILF "This is our first time in Atlanta, and we are looking to have some fun. Any suggestions?"
HBMILF: "And you know that is what we need, cause we are looking to get into trouble!"
M_Dawg: "All girls say that ... let's keep it fun, WHEN I win, you'll have to prove it to me..."
HBMILF: "When you win?"
M_Dawg: "Yes, when I win. There is no other option"
HBMILF: "What if I win?"
M_Dawg: "You won't."
HBMILF: "What if I do?"
M_Dawg: "Your choice - I just know I don't have to worry about it, becaus eit is not an option."
M_Dawg: "I feel like we have an incredible connection, like we are drawn to each other, that at this moment at this time we are meant to be together. I want to be with you tonight"
HBMILF: "I know how incredible this feels, and I've never done something like this before. I'm married and I have a two year old son. I just don't know what to do."
M_Dawg: "I think it is important for a person to decide what is right and what is wrong for them and not to follow society's arbitrary rules. We are two adults. And two adults should be allowed to do what they want to do without other people judging them. I know that you are married and that you are a mother and I also know that at this moment I want to be with you and share a wonderful experience together."
M_Dawg: "Come on"
When I asked her after the fact, what prompted her to sleep with me, she kept saying that I was so suave, so sure of myself that she felt it was right. In other words - I kept a solid frame. I also built comfort with first showing her my drivers license and then shaving. Its amazing to me how these little things can overcome and make a woman who was faithful for 10 years, DTF.