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Don't let your ego/pride get in the way. Even if you are good-looking (that wasn't a subtle dhv )you still have to work like a motherfucker to get laid. You still have to get shot-down, you still have to keep pushing for the bounce, you still have to keep pushing for the fclose.
Put yourself out there. Get shot down in front of your mate and laugh at yourself. Just know that you have to TRY, if you want to get anywhere.
PS - little tip to make it easier for you. Go to a place that YOU actually enjoy. E.g. i hate rNb, so my odds of picking up at an rNb are slim, i will probably start rambling to the chick about how much i fucking hate this song, which creates a negative frame etc etc. However put me anywhere where they play decent electro and my odds will skyrocket.
So it's been about a month since I last fucked (perhaps 'cuddled' sounds more euphemistic?). I was thinkin, 'what's up with this lack of success' when it dawned on me that i've developed a sort of sense of entitlement as of late. I've been letting compliments from the ladies inflate my ego to the extent that i don't even properly 'put myself out there'. It's like i'm too proud to get shot down. The mindset of 'pftt i'm the man, why bother talking to those lowly 7's', will absolutely destroy you.
You become like a magnet, and 'sarging' takes a back seat. They also pick up on your energy if you are ACTUALLY havin a killer time.