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When you see a girl you should only be thinking roughly the same lines as the following:
“Man I have to have that!”
AA and hesitation is the same thing as procrastination. You’re in stuck mode thinking whether she will like you, if she is busy, is it cool enough, blah blah blah. If you start to get negative thoughts use the idea of those negative thoughts to motivate you. Rather than trying to find something positive with all the many negative responses people think, use THAT negativity as a reminder that you are tripping. Pop out that negative bubble by remembering how it feels to be negative vs positive. Every time you get afraid to do anything and you don’t, Verbally remind your self that you are acting like a little pussy!
If you get AA or don’t do anything then say “Man I’m being such a pussy”. If you go for a kiss and don’t, just call your self a pussy again. No escalation? Call yourself a little bitch for not making a move.
Two things will happen.
1) If for every time you notice your bitch tendencies bubbling up and you REALIZE it and do something to change it, you will start succeeding and your comfort levels will increase.
2)But, if every time you call yourself a pussy or a little bitch and start to accept that frame then that’s your problem. Your problem is you ARE a little bitch and you need to grow up and grow some balls. Simple as that! Be a Man damnit!
You don’t have AA you’re just a little crying bitch. You will never get anywhere by not doing anything. Some people MAKE it happen, others watch others MAKE it happen. Which one are you? You never know what’s going to happen unless you make a move. So make your move first, THEN figure out if it was good or bad. I can assure you most of those negative opinions are completely fabricated within your mind and they usually are further from the truth. Go out and have fun. Live in the moment. Remember the HB only knows what you tell her or what you show her. She knows nothing else about you! Create a fun easy going persona! Just fucking go for it. Good luck.
Ok the main problem I see on the beginner boards is AA and not knowing what to do next (hesitation). Firstly I’m going to try and kill all the AA with two ideas.
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“Oh shit!!... Lets make her like me”
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“I want to fuck the shit out of her!”
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“Let me give her the opportunity to get to know a guy like me”
