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The party should really be you. When I see people I know, these days, I'm already whooping, diving about, high-fiveing, going crazy. It's a fucking party where-ever I am, and the main point is that I'm loving it. As it turns out, other people love it to, but that's a side-effect. The main purpose is to keep emotional health, motivation all that shit.
This includes going in set. I can't remember the last set where I wasn't having more fun than the girls... well maybe my Lay is the exception .
- Alphaness is more about self-determination than leadership
For a long time my view of alphaness was all fucked up, I thought of alpha dudes as being big jock guys or leaders and pushing your chest out etc. I did not like this image, and even though I'm a big scary bald guy I actually rejected Alphaness from my image.
But actually it's not about that at all. It's about being prepared to stand alone if necessary and defend your existence/path/beliefs. It's about being prepared to stick by what you have chose to do, what path you are choosing to take, even if everyone else is against you.
Once you realise this and have this you have the ability to take girls on that path with you and they can sense that you will not let anyone fuck with you or them as long as they are with you.
That includes being prepared to beat the shit out of someone if they attack you. Bear that in mind, you MUST have this. This is not about physical strength, my wing V is not a big guy but he is probably about 10 times harder than me because he'd really fucking go nuts if someone attacked him. Nuts as in literally leaping on their face and pounding the flesh off their face. Whatever you gotta do, you must be prepared to completely oppose someone who tries to fuck with your path.
I mean literally imagine you are extracting and some dude comes up and starts pushing you about. You gotta be ready to look him in the eye knowing that you may, in a second, have to pound his face into the floor.
This image that has began to form in my head about alphaness over the last month started out inspired by Gunwitch, so cred to him for that. Eventually it became an idea which integrated into my own self-image, I have the alphaness back. I have had direct comments about this from girls AND guys, many many comments. Guys coming up to me timidly and saying they would not fuck with me (literally).
A big part of this is just being comfortable being on your own and leading yourself / your target.
- Get an ego about some things...?
This is a fucking weird one. But I cultivated an ego about being the most prolific approacher in the lair. Now on a night out if that image is threatened I instantly step it up. Like-wise I have been sitting in a group of PUAs, everyone has just choded on a group of hotties - I feel AA too, but then I think "Fuck this, if anyone is going to approach it's me" and I go in. There's probably a more healthy long term solution to AA...
- Contact closes mean more when you believe they mean nothing, and also, contact close every set for the hell of it
Started doing this this week, working well. Loads of numbers pinging back even though I have invested no meaning in them at all. Plus I am #ing even though my intention is purely to extract.
- I used to go out with the intention to get x, y, or z (like #es or kisses), now I go out with the intention to fuck.
Self-explanatory.
- Girls are 0.0001% content, they are almost literally contentless. (there are weird exceptions, but they are rare)
All they are is a bubble of emotion, body-language, and voice-tone etc. Literally you can just talk shit, especially to drunk girls, but if your voice tone and body-language expresses an emotion it will make sense to them. I've had so many conversations recently where I actually can't hear a fucking word the chick is saying, but from the outside it looks very much like one of my normal sets.
We get closer and closer, more and more kino, laughing, playful shit, isolation, close, etc. Even though neither of us actually understands a word that's being said.
- Always have the most fun.
