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Anyway, one thing I just wanted to blast into infinity is the concept that we understand to be rejection.
After having pretty much nailed how to develop a lifestyle from no girlfriends until "Can all you women leave me alone so I can do other shit" lifestyle, I feel compelled to explain what's REALLY going on with rejection, and why it actually works IN YOUR FAVOUR as opposed to against you - like most of you think it does. In fact, I will venture to say that ANY attempt you make to speak to a woman is, despite your visible rejection, actually making the woman happy.
First, you have to understand that both men and women have DIFFERENT mating strategies.
Men are trying to get as much sex as possible
Women, on the other hand are (get this)... trying to win as many hearts as possible!
This is an assumption that pretty much underlines and underscores a lot of my experience and explains a lot of female behaviours that I have noticed and been on the firing line of.
Women have an advantage in the mating game simply because they can get their needs met INCREDIBLY EASILY! All they have to do is have a guy come up and talk to her, maybe show her a bit of interest and ask her for her phone number. At this point, the woman has SUCCEEDED in her goal of winning this guy's heart, so now she can easily just flick this annoying guy away... which is so often what they do. Meanwhile the poor schmuck tries to call this girl and she constantly flakes on him, yet never tells him to go away outright. What's going on?
Another thing I have noticed is that a woman's male attention receptors can be lit up with either GOOD or BAD attention. This is VERY important to understanding women. She can act nice to everyone and get attention that way... OR, she can be a huge BITCH and piss people off and STILL get attention! For a woman, this is a complete win-win scenario. Women can get their needs met by just starting an irrational argument with you over nothing, and if you are baited into one of these pointless scenarios, she STILL WINS because you will be distracted and getting all emotional over her. To her this is a victory... it does not matter to her about being logically or factually correct. The goal is to get male attention!
If you think about this for a second. If the aim of a woman's mating strategy is to get as much attention as possible, by hook or by crook, then ANY attempt you make to approach a woman, REGARDLESS of how it turns out, is going to make her happy!
If you've been out clubbing or going to bars for as long as I have, you'll also notice an interesting phenomena. Women dressed up all sexy, but not interested in male sexual come-ons! Again, the women in these places generally speaking go to clubs and bars for the ample male attention being thrown at them. You can be sure that the minute you leave and go to the toilet, that when you come back they'll be talking to some other guy. I have seen many of these party-girls get all dressed up, have guys come onto them constantly, and then LEAVE the club and go home with no-one!
You know, I had a bit of a chuckle watching the "Pick up artist" reality show. Talking to girls in a club or a bar is the DAMN EASIEST thing you could ever do! ANY of the women in there are simply going to LOVE the attention coming from ANY guy, doesn't matter who he is! Sure, there were some spectacular blow-offs as well, but to a woman who wants attention - MISSION SUCCESSFUL!
After a while, young women tend to grow out of this fascination of getting freebie male attention when they realise how hollow this actually becomes, and more importantly....
...Women need sex too.
THIS is the advantage in the game that you have over ANY woman. ALL women, at some point, need penetration, and somebody has to be there to do it. It could be ANY guy, but preferably one that likes her and makes her comfortable.
Now get this... if you happen to be one of the men in her collection, and you have expressed a sexual intent in the woman, and she happens to be near her period, and she has NO OTHER OPTIONS.... you'll get laid.
In most cases, this has NOTHING to do with your social status, amount of money, looks, or anything superficial like that. You can get laid simply because you're making her feel comfortable, you're moving things towards sex, and you have a penis (which is a lot better than a dildo), and most importantly, YOU JUST HAPPEN TO KNOW HER.
So anyway, back to what rejection is.
I know what it is like to have lots of female attention too, all vying for a spot on my schedule so we can have sex.., and sometimes with so much of it, you feel like being rude to the girls. "No I can't see you tonight I just want to be left alone", so I understand the dynamic.
So this being the case, what's the best strategy to play the game in:-
The numbers game! All women you approach are going to like the attention they get, REGARDLESS of your level of directness. That being the case, it pays to be polite and socially acceptable, while also being incredibly DIRECT about why you're talking to her. It helps to be famous, because then your ability to meet lots of people and generate instant rapport is very easy (which is why being famous is a huge plus) ... but then again, being famous is the same as simply KNOWING LOTS OF PEOPLE so can meeting lots of people and having a social life generate the same effect for you too.
Follow that up with cutting off the flakes quickly! You will get them simply because women like attention. Again, they have the advantage is the sense that all of them need your attention and in order for you to get laid, you must bait them with it. HOWEVER, if you notice that it's taking more than a month to hook up with the woman, she's been on her period and is probably screwing somebody else. Move on, and drop all contact with her. It is pointless to spend time rewarding the woman with any attention if you're not getting your sexual needs met.
Lastly, don't beat yourself up over not getting laid. You will get there because if you are meeting enough women, EVENTUALLY you will find one who is up for it -- and with the skillset and understanding that I talked about in this post, you will eventually hit paydirt. Of course, you will most likely get used for sex, but that's for another post (and you could have worse problems)
Shit, I haven't posted here for years. Never mind.
(we all know this to be absolutely true)
From the list of candidates, she may choose a sex partner or choose nobody for it at all!
The guy has become part of her "collection" of won-over male hearts. She doesn't have to meet the guy or go and see him, and every time the guy calls her up is like another freebie bit of attention. Thanks sucker! See you later!
The interesting thing was.... did any of those guys have an easy time actually LAYING the girls from the bar/club? Oh sure they may have got lots of digits, but my guess is PROBABLY NOT! Giving a woman attention and getting laid are TWO DIFFERENT THINGS!
For some women, sex can be a lot of fun for them, but for other women, sex is more or less like having to take a dump. It's disgusting, but they have to go and take one now and again.
To a woman, you are nothing more than a whore, and if you are not, you are most likely her unpaid male escort who listens to her bitch about the ex boyfriend and you carry her shopping bags around.
There is NO MIDDLE GROUND with women, and despite how woman want to brainwash you into thinking that men and women can simply be platonic friends (because that suits their goals)... it's NOT POSSIBLE!
Rejection is basically the woman's way of telling you that she's just not in heat at the moment, OR she's just flattering herself by bragging that she can get lots of male attention and she's "tired" of it.... the thing is that she isn't really tired of it. It's like saying that I get tired of having sex! TRUTH IS THAT THEY CAN'T GET ENOUGH! Like I said before, it's VERY easy for a woman's dating needs to get fulfilled with so many men paying attention. They never have to work for anything if they are even half semi-decent looking.
