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4th of July weekend. A good friend invites me down to his beach house/boat at the Jersey shore for the weekend with some friends and HBJihad, a girl he has been an orbiter of for about 4 years. I immediately accept. I had met HBJihad about twice in the course of these 4 years but because my friend is often in fights with her over his orbiter status we never got too close.
I greet her with a hug when she gets to my friends but it was extremely lukewarm. We load into the car to head down the shore. In the backseat my friend and I fold down the seats and turn it into a flatbed. We sit with our heads resting on the front seats headrests heckle all the passing cars in the super congested traffic. My head is resting on HBJihads headrest and i turn around a lot and incidentally kino while we figure out what to play on the ipod. most of this was shoulder and hand kino with some eye contact.
When we get there we go to the beach...not much happens except her rubbing suntan lotion on me. We go back to my friend’s beachouse. by this point i have escalated kino to light lower back kino guiding her through doorways and the narrow halls of his beachouse. This kino spot has always been good for me and i’ve read it releases a lot of endorphins and oxytocin in the girl. If you dont know where it is it is basically right above where jeans or pants would start and maybe even a bit lower. think of the two dimples a lot of girls have on their backs...that’s the spot.
anyway we’re all drinking and eating and having fun and she keeps giving me proximity and we’re mixing drinks together. she’s giving me compliance in grabbing me food and drinks and so i give her some compliance and grab her a drink when i go in to get a beer. I make her drink a little strong because for some reason i can barely taste the tequila in her margaritas.
i didn’t learn this until later but at this point mutual friend comes up to her.
My friends bmog attempt crashes and burns HARD without me even being there.
I am having more and more revalations about how to properly use Dicarlo’s escalation ladder and non-verbal push and pull. These happened without thinking about them at all though and it is only now typing this up that I see how they fit the escalation ladder.
We bounce from there to another friend’s beachhouse for a party. She isn’t talking to me at all and I’m just hanging out with a bunch of my friends and having a good time. I put my phone in her bag at the beachbecause i didnt want it jutting out of the pocket of my super skinny jeans. At some point during the party she asks me to hold a bunch of crap from her purse. I thought at first it was because she had to grab something from her bag, but the second i realize this isn’t the case i simply drop them into the grass as if I just got serious ADD and go talk to someone else. She then takes my cellphone out of my bag in front of me and drops it into the grass. I leave it there and she keeps making a point to tell everyone it’s mine when they ask why there’s a phone on the ground. eventually someone is like oh and hands it to me. I say “oh...thanks!” as if i didn’t even notice.
I've never been sure how to deal with these types of tests. Many times I end up looking like a prick who won't do a simple thing for a girl. In this instance I think I did well. Opinions?
Now we leave for Bar A, a huge outdoor bar with about 5 mini bars connected to one main sand covered central part. As soon as conversation with my core group of people gets dull I get ADD again and wander in the crowd. I open a few sets, get rejected a few times. I grab a few male friends to come into sets with me when i get the feeling One was of note just for how funny it was.
Two chinese girls sitting on beach chairs with 5 empty chairs around them.
By this point i’ve gotten about 5 text messages from HBJihad. Up to this point she did not have my phone number so she must have gotten it from BMOG friend. I didnt respond until about 6th of these. spelling is as i received them and they came in about 3-5 minutes apart.
HBJihad: your a stupid ho
then I start trying to find her at the bar.There are a few failed attempts and a few times i find her and dance a bit but then get distracted or go to pee or buy a round of drinks for my friends. I make new friends left and right...in line at the portajohns with the bouncers at the bar.
HbJihad: wtf I wanna fuck
I ignore the overt sexuality but make effort to meet in semi-isolation in the bar.
HbJihad: you keep running off with all these girls when I’m trying to see you! (she saw me with no girls. I approached way out of her sight)
We leave the bar eventually after deciding i didn’t want to fuck her in a portajohn. We sleep on my friends boat and I take her to one of the bunk beds in a private room after she has a huge screaming fight with BMOGfriend over him trying to control her in different ways. I quell the fight quickly on both sides. We fuck in what amounts to a coffin and she sucks my cock like a champion. I take out my apadravya (cock piercing from the kama sutra) and she asks why i didn’t leave it in. She comes and I decide I want to save some energy for later so i don’t come and I get dressed.
I come out to the bow of the boat afterwards and see BMOGfriend and others. ?
We fuck again later that night (now around 4am and pass out in the coffin bed together until we wake up at 7 or so. BMOG’s family comes onto the boat so we can all go on a ride down the shore and enjoy the day. the entire ride HBJihad is giving me proximity and helping me nurse a massive hangover. resting her hand on my forehead when i take a nap leaning against her.
Since we came back from the shore she has texted me many times talking about how we need to fuck each other properly and how drunk coffin sex is not good enough.She has initiated conversation 3 times in the day since we've seen each other so there's some mild clinginess to deal with. The text message explosion at Bar A is definitely a redflag too even though she was a drunk. Probably some mild LSE to keep in mind. Nothing serious. I thrive with freaks and she knows i'm leaving the country for a year in less than a month.
Just checked my phone while writing this and I receive
BMOGfriend since then has been extremely nice and friendly as if he has no hard feelings. I legitimately think he’s cool with it now and sees me fucking just as something I do. I’ve offered to teach him a few things when he hits true rock bottom with his current LSE freak GF.
ANY AND ALL COMMENTS ARE APPRECIATED!
Okay this is a bit long. Hopefully it's helpful.
Friend: Be very careful around Constantin I’m pretty sure he’s trying to get you drunk
HBJihad:I can take care of myself. Constantin’s not getting me drunk. I’m getting me drunk
We all go out to see fireworks on the beach and theres a tight circle of people. Instead of fighting to be a part of it I just lay on my back on the sand staring straight up at the fireworks. Soon she leans back and rests her head on my stomach. orbiter friend follows suit and rests his head on her stomach. we take some funny pictures of this and we alternate from hand kino and light touching to complete pushes where she is talking to others and so am i ignoring each other completely.
Constantin: Friends haven’t showed up yet? you girls have been sitting her like wallflowers for like 20 minutes! Mind if we grab a seat?
HBnasty: YES! Don’t even think about sitting down.
HBnice: I think they’ll be here soon..I hope atleast (heavy EC)
(I take a seat)
Hbnasty: GET UP GET UP. If you don’t get up I’ll fart on you (holds lighter up to me as if to burn me
Constantin: (laughing) That’s not very nice...oh I get it. she’s the nice one and you’re the evil one!! (I flick away her lighter into the sand as if it’s a mosquito). Well I’m gonna go dance a bit because I’m getting sand up my butt. Come join me later!
HbJihad:makw our wirh me. steve is on my bahgona (pussy i found out later)
HbJihad:...
HbJihad:wtf is your problem
HbJihad: wtf
hbJihad: stop being a dick when I wanna fuck
We finally meet up after i take two of my friends including BMOGfriend to the dancefloor and lose him so he wont see us making out.
BMOGfriend: have a good time?
Constantin: we were just talkin a bit. she’s a sweet girl
BMOGfriend: dude the entire boat was rocking
Constantin: (smile from ear to ear and shrug my shoulders)
HBJihad: Lack of space and my hangover def limited me today. not okay. I owe you a good time next time.
Keys to this...being completely myself and having self respect. Doing what I want when i want (instant ADD with things I dislike) but legitimately hearing peoples concerns. I paid attention to both BMOG and HBJihad when they were fighting. Even though I used a lot of traditional game concepts I thought about none of them. I simply acted as I wanted to.
