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After a recent breakup, I've been in field a lot lately, and the more I am out there...the more I have come to realize how effective Juggler's method of conversation really is.
Below is an example of how I incorporate Juggler into my game...
I generally open direct or situationally.
"How's your night going?" I'll ask...
"Good..." She'll reply, generally with a look that cries out 'oh no! another chode has come to hit on me!'
"Well, mine is going fantastic...that's better than good. That means...I win!"
Just an example of how I open these days
The best way I can describe JM is that you are an explorer, or a detective...searching for the uniqueness in every person. Except you just so happen to chose to find it in extremely attractive women!
From here, I'll ask relatively chode questions.
"So what's your story?"
"Blah blah blah"
The point is not her answer itself. The point that I need to pick out the essence of what she has told me and relate to it emotionally.
Take for example, a girl I met in a night club last week.
"So what's your story?" I ask.
"Oh I'm just a college student out to party!! Woo."
How can I relate emotionally to THAT?
Simple.
"Awesome. I hear that! I just love it when I can FINALLY let go and just have a great time, when all week I had to study and go to work! It feels liberating!"
The next time you ask her a question, she's now going to put more work into her answer.
After I relate emotionally I'll reward her.
I search for something she says or does, her vibe, her clothes, her hair, her dancing, her drink, etc. It can be ANYTHING really...just be creative.
I'll use the previous example to highlight the different between relating and rewarding.
"I'm just a college student out to party!! Woo."
"Awesome. I could tell you were fun! You have a really cool vibe, I find that sexy about you."
Did you catch my SOI? Statement of intent. I tend to do these fairly early in the conversation. I'm talking literally 1 or 2 minutes in.
This + good eye contact and kino sets up a really nice sexual vibe between the two of you. You could talk about the weather and make that shit sexual.
"Yeaaaah, and it's a 30% chance of precipitation. Perfect weather for staying in doors, don't you think?"
She'll dig it.
From there I like to vibe. The situation is already sexual because I've made it so. I'm locking in heavy eye contact, and I'm touching her.
If it's really loud, I'll make my SOI two parted. One part is the statement of intent, the other part is a suggestion that we move to somewhere less "under the speakers."
For example:
"What's your story?"
"I'm just a college student out to party!! Woo."
"Awesome. I could tell you were fun! You have a really cool vibe, I find that sexy about you. C'mere."
At that point, I'd grab homegirl and lead her to somewhere less noisy. In the day time I just suggest we sit down somewhere close so we can chat more.
From here I ask more open ended questions using the vacuum to get to know her better. Not only that, but to give her more reasons in her mind why I like her -- aside from her tight ass and perfect tits.
When you ask an opened ended question in the beginning be sure to "go first" and be prepared to answer that shit yourself if she doesn't wanna. Then ask that question again, mothafucka.
"What do you like to do for fun that is physical?"
Use the vacuum.
"Um...I dunno"
"Oh...well I really enjoy running. I feel really liberated after a long hard run, and my mind just feels totally at peace." (notice how i'm speaking with emotions? this makes what i say more relate-able to her)
Then I ask: "What about you?"
She'll be more apt to reply.
This is how I use JM for conversation, part 2 will be how I use this to close.
Part 1: conversational basics
