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I've noticed that a lot of guys here have been having problems with oneitis lately. Some realized that GFTOW doesn't help. Of course it doesn't help, it's like trying to fix a car engine by washing the windshield. You doing it wrong.
AFCs and chicks think their lives will magically become better once they get that ONE SPECIAL PERSON. It stems from a multitude of issues like neediness, societal brainwashing (the matrix), Disney fantasy bullshit etc. Grass is always greener huh? Notice how people want to get married thinking their life will become perfect, and yet when they finally get married they crave being single again? Serves them right for being dumb.
You need to understand that NO ONE except yourself can make your life perfect. Relying on other people to do that is asking for major trouble in your life, that often leads to irreparable consequences, depression and divorce just being some of them. Ultimate freedom comes from being free of neediness for money (it's just an illusion anyway) and sex, but that's a story for another thread.
You also need to understand the concept of love. Human beings are capable of empathy, which usually breeds altruistic unconditional love for the whole humanity. We are also capable of familial bonding to ensure positive environment for our offsprings.
"Love" in the bullshit Disney way is nothing other than uncontrollable desperation, neediness and lust. True mastery of life comes only from emotional mastery over one's emotions. Once you realize that emotions are caused by neurochemicals in your nervous system, and that you DON'T HAVE TO ACT on those chemicals, you will realize that emotions are just an illusion as well. People make mistake of identifying themselves with their emotions. Note how people say „I AM angry“ or „I AM sad“. Mistake number one is thinking you ARE your emotions. If such thought pattern takes place (default one for all living beings), you will invariably ACT on those emotions, thinking they are who YOU are.
When you realize that you are NOT your emotions and that they are just chemical responses, you will be able to distance yourself and observe your situation and your reality from a an objective vantage point as an independent observer. They will simply... dissolve.
Knowing that, oneitis is just a cocktail of emotions based on sexual lust, fear of abandonement, need for mothering, selfishness and need for emotional validation. It's a NEGATIVE emotion. True POSITIVE „love“ (if romantic love exists as such) comes from appreciation and empathy. This kind of love is something AFCs and most chicks will never be able to feel, because they are too damn selfish and obsessed with their own emotional gratification.
Know yourself, know your emotions and you will be free of all negative influences of your own feelings, and you will selectively be able to enjoy only the ones you deem positive.
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That leads us to the realization that women DON'T really LOVE us. They think they do, but it's just temporary lust based on attraction you've created. They crave cock and that's what they really want on a low level. Neo-Rio said many times that we are just sex toys for women, man whores who get used for sex and other things (and that's ok as far as I'm concerned). This is also the reason why a woman can tell you she „loves“ you today, and dump you for a brand new dick tomorrow. That's why AFCs mistakenly say „she never loved me, she tricked me and dumped me“. She DOES FEEL these emotions of „love“ in the MOMENT, she isn't lying. It's just that female emotions are highly volatile goods, so to speak, and they can change overnight. Since chicks are emotional beings and connected with their emotions on a very primal, low level, they are actually slaves to their emotions.
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Man up, master your emotions, take responsibility for your actions, know that you have the power to shape your reality in ANY way you want, and you'll truly live the life you've always dreamed of. POWER lies in a simple fact that no one told you before: you are NOT your emotions and you don't need to act on them.
Sorry if my thoughts in this post seem incoherent, I've made this post from several collections of my writings over time. I haven't been posting much lately, and I haven't been sarging in the past few weeks, I've had some major breakthroughs though.
