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But when you get out in the field and you try to put the paper into practice, it can get to be a quite a headache.
You start to think mechanically and as if talking to women is somehow the equivalent of calibrating the anti-matter containment field on the USS Enterprise(and if you know what I'm referring to, that just proves my point all the more).
1. Approach 2. Open 3. Transition 4. Spike buying temperature 5. Build comfort 6. Kino 7. Find a connection 8. Time bridge...
Sounds familiar doesn't it? Hahaha.
Having these terms and frameworks to gain an understanding of processes as they happen is useful. Very useful in fact. The main problem is that in practice, mechanical thinking loses a lot in the translation when you're in person.
Even worse, there are a TON of guys who never even learned to have a conversation with an attractive woman who are trying to "mechanically" work their way into a woman's pants. It's these same guys who struggle to progress, that complain about the material, or the guys they learn it from, or the community in general, and they end up disappointed and resentful.
All of that is really unnecessary.
Instead of rushing straight to "game" mode, and getting burned out learning the mechanics of interacting with women, simply learn how to actually enjoy the woman in front of you.
I PROMISE, the mechanics matter so much less, and it will be sooooo much easier for women to want to be involved with you when you just learn to sit there and enjoy them and appreciate them, and to a degree, even more so by giving them the opportunity to give you a reason to appreciate and enjoy them.
Take a break from testing your material, or working on your structure and execution, and just go out, meet a girl and see if there are things about her that you enjoy.
Her smile, her eyes, her voice, the way she moves, the way she laughs, how her skin feels when you touch, her wit, her energy, her positivity, her experiences, her dreams, her desires, her sexuality... the list just goes on and on.
So, instead of trying to impress her, win her over, neg her, game her, or anything else, just enjoy her and give her the chance to be appreciated. And if she doesn't take it, she missed out. Move on the next girl and give her the same opportunity.
The way you MENTALLY approach women has just as much of a vast impact on your interactions with them as the way you physically approach them. Placing your attention on appreciating them can take the pressure off of you and your need to "preform" which will make you preform that much better.
I know a lot of you guys read, study, and drown your brains in information on how to meet girls. When I was fresh out of the grinder, I did too. And that's all fine and well. There's nothing wrong with a little paper work.
