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Ms Chlamydia was the (HOT!!) chick who finally took my virginity.
http://www.fastseduction.com/masf/173/474273/
Now I call this "first-timer" because by her account, it was her first time being with a white guy. I'm willing to bet it wasn't the last time, considering how things turned out with her. Yes, this is the full story of Ms Chlamydia, not just on how she took my virginity but of the 10 months that followed, the first breakup, and the 2nd breakup that ended up with her giving me chlamydia!
As I wrote late in 2005, I spent 6 months with this girl. They were magical 6 months, I mean hey I was getting laid a couple of times a week by a chick who didn't want to take over my life, she just wanted to FUCK! Really wonderful! A virgin's dream come true. I was sarging, working, fucking, eating. Fuckin life! It was amazing.
Then, one night in late November, when I'm calling her so she can come over for a fuck, she told me she can't. She goes in what I call "noble self-sacrificing mode" (where a chick will act as if she is selfless because she is cutting herself off from something nice, even though there is no logical reason for her to do so) and tells me I'd better do without her, she's got too much homework to do and I should find a girl who will have time for me.
I hung up and went out clubbing and danced with a Venezuelan girl who danced REALLY well (something Ms Chlamydia couldn't do), after posting the following:
http://www.fastseduction.com/masf/34/272087/
In it, GreenTea123 asked me if I could talk more about it.. Well, 4 years later, I hope GreenTea is reading
Now after the "breakup", I didn't even try contacting Ms Chlamydia. That's just not my style. If I learned anything from ASF (and I learned TONS), it's that there's always more girls, they don't know me, so I got a clean slate with them and I don't need to fight a pre-made idea about me, I don't need to fix a problem or a headache in between a new girl and me, cuz there's NONE. So I pushed Ms Chlamydia out of my mind and was sarging new girls.
That's when Ms Chlamydia emailed me, 4 days later. Yup, she cracked. She apologized for her behaviour (heh, good girl!) and hoped that I wouldn't hate her and would talk to her again. In other words, she was horny and had no dick.
My hunch: there was another guy.. And he was lame, or it didn't work out. For all I know THIS is when she caught chlamydia, from that other guy, and passed it on to me. Could also be shortly before the 2nd breakup.
What followed is that I called her, told her we could meet to talk about it. She came by bus all the way to my end of town (a 40 minutes bus ride) and sat in my car for talking. She was crying a bit. I explained to her that the kind of person I am (and I really am like that), is the kind of person who likes trouble-free relationships with anyone. If someone pisses me off or doesn't jive well with me, I turn my back and that's that. But I recognized that she is a nice girl and I like her, so I'm willing to hear her out. (you guessed it, precum was flowing in my pants).
She accepted the kind of person I am, and that she'll be good to me from now on, and just wants to be happy and doens't want me to be mad at her. So I looked at her... Wait.. wait.... And I told her "welcome back!!!". She cried tears of joy, I kissed her passionately and started driving towards my place without even saying a word about where we were going. We get to my house, she said "oh we're at your house" and I said "yup", brought her to the basement (where I lived) and fucked her silly.. She said later on she wasn't expecting to come over and have sex. Suuuuuure...
Things were rosy again for a couple of months.
Then 3 things happened.
#1: she shaved her pussy. Strange, cuz I had never asked her for it.
#2: at one point lying down naked on my couch, as we were about to fuck, she kept telling me "I'm a sheep, I'm a sheep, I'm a sheep..." Trying to suggest some kind of roleplay, or just her mind blowing up? I never knew..
Those 2 details stuck in my mind though, and then one night after work, I met her quickly in a parking lot, she claimed she didn't have time to come over (red flag!!!) and somehow started grabbing my jacket and say "I want to be so small and get into you" Yeah I think her mind blew up. She seemed different. She was crying that her homework was taking too much time, etc.
Shoulda seen it coming.
2 days later I called her, and she wasn't there. No biggie. A day later, again, she wasn't there... That's when I checked my secondary email account, the one I rarely check cuz I get all the spam on it, and there was that email from her...
... saying that she didn't want to see me anymore, and that I was bothering her landlady by calling so much (well shit how should I know, you emailed me on my crap email address instead of letting me know ASAP it was over!?) Thanking me for a great relationship, and that she had to focus fully on her homework.
Well I remembered details #1 and #2 above.
A week later when my crotch started itching, my wingman was sure it couldn't be an STD, cuz Ms Chlamy was so shy and reserved, she couldn't have fucked someone else could she? A few more days went by before I got the results from my doctor: chlamydia, in plain sight (metaphorically), in my piss. Yup, she had given it to me, no other way to it since she was my first. Lol.
Everyone thought I was weird or crazy, that I wasn't mad at her.. I wasn't mad at her for fucking another guy (heck I was out sarging all the time), I wasn't mad at her for giving me chlamydia (all things considered, it was way less of a bother than say, a flu, or a sinusitis). The only thing I was mad at, was her dumping me by email. AFTER 10 MONTHS! What a bitch lol. I guess it goes with her shy personality, and her desire to avoid seeing me get mad, or wanting to avoid conflct. Well I was over it pretty quickly, meeting new girls, some koreans here, some chinese there, some japanese there, even some white chicks to pepper the mix a bit.
I was actually made stronger by that STD, because now I know it's not that much to be afraid. I done my research, I experienced it, I learned how good sex was without a condom, how to handle freaked out girls, etc. I know it's cliché to say you'll never forget your first, but I really will never forget. This 10 months was so full of good lessons, plus it got me started on the yellow fever... HYAAAAA!!!!
(nope, I haven't stopped writing, I just procrastinated!)
