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COLD APPROACH:
This is where all of the skills are forged. I don't care about the debates of online, social circle, etc.. If you have done it- you know what Im talking about. It is a different world..
Why is Cold Approaching important? On two levels: 1) When you see THAT girl (no- not oneitis- just THAT girl for THAT day- ha)
2) There is a psychological transition that happens. You overvcome a fear. It is a rite of passage so to speak. And whether you know it or not it separates you from other guys. And women can smell this. Im serious.
When you go out alone, a couple of thoughts will come to haunt you. One- you will look at people in groups and long for that cozy comfortable feeling of being a normal person DONT. Instantly reframe yourself as NOT being a loser (cause that'll be your first thought) and put yourself on the other end of the spectrum. You are BETTER than other people. This is an elite game. You are now a part of this club. Normally it is bad to be conceited. Not with Pickup. You better be an elitist or it will be a tough climb.
Also, you HAVE to be ready for the fight/flight response. So essentially what people call STATE is that you have to be ready for the fact that to many people, these are life-changing interactions- but you will be doing them by rote! For example: A girl laying naked in my bed after fucking- said these words: "When you came and talked to me, it was like a movie. Every girl dreams of a cute guy coming and talking to her out of the blue. For girls these are like bragging rights."
Now I would think this is AFC fantasy initially. But these are real words from a real girl (also with a real pussy, but I save that for the LR ) To a girl a cold approach is balls. Yes, AFC's do it but there is a tipping point, and I hope all of us are on that GOOD side, if not disregard this post..
Here's another thing that'll happen. You'll puss out (which is normal) and then you will think: Ok if i encounter this situation AGAIN, how would I do it? Besides re-ititerating the fact you should do it THEN = Whatever answer you come up with USE it next time, no matter how far flung. Usually you will think- no its too dramatic, etc.. etc.. but it isnt. Its already dramatic. The whole interaction.
One universal truth of cold approach: NO MATTER HOW GOOD OR BAD YOU ARE AT IT (which we're good, right?) IT WILL MAKE HER DAY BETTER. Short of sexually assaulting her. Just wanna throw that in there
Ok- nothing new here- but I hope someone at least gets something of value.
