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I want to discuss the stigma and society's negative view of the Player, and my take on the philosophy of a real Player.
The term Player, with women, has a notoriously bad reputation for being sleazy» and dishonest. And rightfully so, because there are many men in the world who view women as a means only to higher status and popularity. This, to me, is being sleazy» and dishonest because in this scenario the person is manipulating another person only to satisfy an ulterior motive -- the Ego.
If your inclination to be a better seducer comes from wanting to nail one hundred women, just so you can tell your friends how cool you are and write a Lay Report, you're the epitome of my topic. This is how the Player gains a bad reputation. Such is the case in the guy that becomes angry with a woman, because she won't accept his sexual advances.
Personally, I think to label the feeling of desiring women with a negative connotation like sleazy» is ludicrous. But, that is a typical women's view of a Player -- a guy who finds solace in trying to bed as many women as possible. A belief that as individuals we have to overcome in order to become better seducers.
You and me. We're a small group of guys who whole-heartedly believe wanting to fuck women is a perfectly acceptable truth. If it comes from a place where you want to satisfy your sexual desires as a man, and to please her as well, it's a perfectly healthy attitude. But, with this knowledge, and with the knowledge that women have been taught that a man who lusts for women is sleazy», we have to understand the ignorance of this realistic objection. And I do that with acceptance .
I consider myself a Player by the definition that I love women, and desire to enjoy as many as possible. I know that in doing so, I'm going to meet many women who object to my desire. I'm going to encounter defensive attitudes, brash and illogical cock-blocks, and extreme insults from both men and women because of my desire. I accept this, because this is what I signed up for -- to challenge society's take on the Player, and to live my natural desires. And I will not object nor defend myself to their beliefs.
But, what I will find through the picking of berries are the ones who find acceptance once they discover my intentions; through the process of taking accountability for my pick-up attempts -- no matter how obvious it is. Once a woman knows that I will not recoil in shame, she has nothing which to harm me with. In truth, I want to satisfy her as much as I want to satisfy myself.
I am a Player.
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Of course, alternative views and opinions are welcomed.
Warning! This post may offend you.
