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So you spot some other group and you tell them they, “smell funny but they’re pretty for bastard commies,” and while they’re thinking about this strange comment you’ve isolated your girl and are groping her breasts behind a candy machine. You think, “this shouldn’t work,”….but it does, and you’re free and don’t give a fuck.
That is what it feels like to be in state. That’s what gets you laid.
I’ve seen new guys “try,” to pick up. I’ve been there, and I still go there. Deep down we all ‘care.’ We want validation, we want a good time, we want love and respect. It’s very, very hard to let go of your ego. Not even Gandhi could let go of his ego completely. Especially not Gandhi.
If you don’t understand ego read, “A new earth” by Eckhart Tolle. Yeah he fucks Oprah but he’s a good intro to spirituality and ego control.
The ego compares, the ego is never satisfied, the ego talks to you. Turn off the voices.
How does ego control help you get laid? You stop thinking. You live more instinctually. Like a hunter-killer. Don’t think, just slay the mammoth. I know pickup is riddled with cave man metaphors but they work.
When I’m in state I will say the craziest shit to people, sometimes offensive things, and still generate attraction. It’s a powerful experience to say the least.
How do I get in state? I make a decision and follow through with it. “I will pick up a girl tonight. I will have fun.” It’s as simple as that. I start talking. I start laughing. I start making outrageous comments.
Sometimes I piss people off. Sometimes I creep people out. Sometimes I can’t get in the moment. But once you feel that ‘click,’ it’s on and the night is yours.
A lot of guys will become state junkies. They worry so much about getting in state and acting like a drunk player they forget to close. If you get stuck on validation seeking you will forget to close. Just a word of warning. Validation will put you in state. A girl will laugh at your joke or whatever, and then “boom!” you’re in state. But if she back turns or calls you a creep you crash and can’t get back up.
That’s where being ‘present,’ or, ‘in the moment,’ comes into effect. Don’t let those bumps affect you. Forget it and move on otherwise you will doom yourself to dwelling on the past and screw over your entire adventure.
When you are bursting with creative energy and charm you will attract similar energy. You will attract love and you will attract hate. If you live in the extreme of the energy spectrum you will encounter quick romance and quick violence.
That’s a word of warning for you, “flash” gamers. It’s like heroin and will take a toll. Great rewards for great risk. For my own brand of bar game I like saying crazy shit, grabbing girls on the dance floor and swinging them around aggressively escalating and all that. It’s one way of doing things I suppose. Being chill can work as well. It’s just not as fun.
It doesn’t matter what you say.
You can tell a woman she shouldn’t turn left because rapists always seek those that turn left. Her friends will scratch their heads, but because you don’t give a fuck….you are so in the moment—it doesn’t matter what you say or do. It’s all gold. And when it’s not, like you get those weird looks and the girls turn their backs….you don’t care.
You don’t have to say the crazy shit I say. Just free yourself and take risks. Take social risks, personal risks. Don’t think….just do. Don’t get your ass kicked but live like a rock star for a night, or a day, or a year. Take a personal vacation from conformity.
