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Its worth reading, not only for the things she says, but for the things she DOESN'T say.
Basically, her opinion of these guys (and its probably not too far off the mark) is that they are douchebags. Most of them unload on her their life story, wives, hobbies, etc.
In other words, the boring, lame shit no woman wants to hear.
I particularly like this passage:
Now, how would a PUA play this? Well, first off, he probably wouldnt choose a coffee date, but thats not an insurmountable obstacle.
PUA walks in, relaxed, laid back, sits down, unblinking EC, doesn't say anything. He is comfortable with silence- this is dominant and alpha. She says something and his replies are leading, mirroring, and basically dont mean anything. He is concentrating on EC, leaning back, triangular gazing.
But any moron can stay quiet. You don't want her to think "this guy is too shy to talk", so the PUA occassionally pulls out some chick crack- runs strawberry fields or does a palm reading or some shit.
OMFG. This guy is SO different from all the lame chumps I've met.....
In an hour or two he has built some comfort and rapport with minimal effort. He is just waiting...waiting...she finally gives him an opening to talk about sex. Maybe it's a mention of her last failed relationship ("what, was the sex bad?") or a leading question about her being adventurous that ends up in the "kinkiest thing you've ever done".
Now she is telling him about the time two Siamese midgets spit roasted her. OMFG...this guy is so DIFFERENT....
The author, basically, has no clue what she wants. But it is obvious from her writing that she wants to meet the mysterious, seductive, dominant man.
There is a lesson here: most guys are AFCs, and it doesnt take a hell of a lot to stand out from the crowd...which in most cases, is enough to close the deal.
There is an article on CNN from Oprah online about a woman who meets 100 guys from online for coffee.
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/09/22/o.dates.meet.the.one/index.html
"They behave as though on job interviews or in sales positions, leaning forward, pitching. Maybe it's the caffeine, but the men do not shut up. Not nervous-talky, like a girl gets, but sales-talky, rushed, forceful, boasty. They have a few prepared questions, but they aren't wanting the information. They're checking boxes off. Asks questions. I'm talkative, and I can't get a word in edgewise."
