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Since then, he has laid like 5 girls and has a continuous rotation of girls to get his nut off.
My friend meets these girls all off of the internet. These chicks are not hot at all by the way. Most of them are either a bit plump or have crazy tendencies. He openly tells these girls he's not looking for a relationship, farts in front of these girls after knowing them for only 2 or so days, and basically acts like he could care less what they think of him...which is great.
The funny thing is that these chicks accept him for who he is. He doesn't hide who he is, or try to be someone that he is not. He puts himself out there with total honesty.
My friend has told me many times before that looks are not that important to him, and that he is only trying to get his sexual needs met, and maybe find a chick who's cool to hang out with. If not, that's fine. He does not have high standards, and has said this many times before. On the topic of sex, he said that he doesn't really care all that much about it but likes hanging out with these girls anyway, for the hell of it. It's not like he's trying to be some "sexual stud" as I think we all have tried to be.
When I was out at the store with him earlier, I happened to notice the attention that the cute girl behind the check out counter was giving him. This girl was hot. When we left the store he's like, "yeah that chick wanted me - they all do."
This guy is skinny, poor posture, and doesn't dress nice. But what I have seen change in him since I first met him is his indifference towards all girls. No girls really excite him or make him nervous like they used to - hot or not. That is why this chick behind the counter was smiling at him and acting like he was some attractive dude. He is not desperate because he's getting sex from all the trolls he's meeting off the net.
Most guys I see are all after the "hot" girls, but this guy will pretty much sleep with any girl that likes to be around him. And these girls that he meets off the internet do. They laugh at all his jokes, and are completely genuine towards him.
The point is that if a man is only interested in women for sex, then why is it necessary to always try with the super hot girls?
The answer is that all men have their own reasons for pursuing women.
When I see guys brag about how they banged some hot model, or a porno star, or a hot 18 year old, or whatever breed of hot chick that is out there, they act like it's a huge accomplishment. In reality, a nut is a nut, whether it's in my hand or splattered all over some girl's face. With the lights out, the pussy is all the same. The only thing that really matters is whether or not she may have STD's.
So, what I'm saying is that if men were after girls just for sex, they'd fuck anything that walks.
The reason they don't is because men are after super hot chicks just to prove something to themselves, to the girl, or to their friends. It's all about the man's ego -- I banged super hot blonde, so therefore that makes me special.
In reality, you aren't special if you have a hot girlfriend, or receive any sort of validation from any kind of women. It's all a bunch of bullshit in comparison to all the other legitimate shit out there, i.e. being successful on your own and doing well for yourself.
I see how many men come from having AFC backgrounds, so they are out to try and score with all the types of chicks who once rejected them. In this instance, it is not about women, it is about ego. This is understandable. I used to be like this myself.
So, in the end what does it even mean to be "successful with women"?
Does it mean that in order to be "successful" that you have to bang super hot girls?
Does it mean that you have to look for and earn approval among "high status" women?
Does banging UG's off the net = success?
What is it that men really want from women?
The first thing often said about women is how hot they are, then the guy may say, "and she's one of the coolest people I know." Come on, if this chick was fat and/or ugly I doubt the latter would hold up.
I am by no means trying to say that looks aren't important, because I would probably dump my girlfriend if she somehow gained 100 pounds.
What I am saying is that the only real difference between a regular cute chick and a model is a lot of makeup. Status is subjective, and ego-related.
I'm not trying to throw jabs, or be critical, over anyone's particular view on women.
I'm only trying to get you to think about what is really important to you in pursuing women.
I have a friend who was a virgin until 21. After he laid his first girl, he continued to lack confidence around girls. Then came the day where he met a chick and fell in love with her. They were in a bad relationship for a little over a year before they broke up. This was recent.
