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Zardoz wrote:
> I see three girls at the bus stop, outside the bar, 2 am. They are young,
While sarging, from time to time you eventually end up in the situation like that. And this lowers your state significantly. Although my knowledge of the "Matrix" and my mentality of "outcome independence" help greatly to reduce the effect, it still affects me. I want a situation like that to have ZERO effect on me, because any slight change on my state might affect my results. I don't want to completely turn around the set, although if that happens, I don't mind. But rather I want to at least next them with the knowledge that they tried to bring me down, but my social skills were over their heads and I reframed it to my advantage - which certainly WILL RAISE my state and I would feel socially invincible.
Lately I've been thinking that, what are the best ways or routines to handle situation like this so you can reframe it to your advantage? There is always a chance to be unaffected and say nothing. But I don't really like it, because it still feels like they have the upper hand.
I’d also like to state that I’m a PUA whose verbal intelligence is below average, so I'm rather bad at reframing it in real time like many guys here probably are able to. That also means I have less “natural game»” like many PUA’s here have and I rely more on routines (which still are mostly from my own life)
What are your thoughts?
I just read Zardoz's FR, "Fr: Attack of the bitches"
http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&boardid=2&read=98762&fid=24
> maybe 19, 7's at best but whatever they're cute girls so I approach.
>
> "Hey hay!" I say.
> "Oh hi there...."
> "You guys look fun. Where is the next party?"
> "Not here.....over there..."
>
> They all laugh. Standard shit test. I laugh too, like whatever lol.
>
> Girl 1: "Do you even know what that poppy means?"
> Z: "It's a symbol of heroin use."
> Girl 2: "Oh my god you don't even know what the poppy means!"
> Girl 3: "What a douche. Go away hairy chest man!"
> Girl 1: Nice ripped jeans.....go over there! Hahaha!"
> Girl 2: Yeah nice hairy chest and ripped jeans....hahah. Go away....go over
> there. Buh bye!"
>
> I just stand there and smile. Fuck this sucks. I mean, it's very rare that
> I get this kind of reaction of a cold approach. And I didn't even want to
> fuck them. Just wanted to talk and find an after party. It feels bad. But
> fuck that I am not walking away and I will not feed their hateful frenzy.
So I if my brain is freezed by situation like that, I NEED something to be prepared.
