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(about me: I'm 25, white, looking ok, 5'8'', relatively athletic.)
Here is what happened. Perhaps somebody will find it useful for the gym pull, perhaps somebody suggests why the sex part didn't happen..
I got to the gym at 8pm, feeling bad, feels like I'm getting sick, shit. I ran for a while got all sweaty. A girl not too far away is using the "steps" machine.
Alcohol: "Hey, is it safe to use this machine?"
10 min later, I'm coming back, she is working out on the same spot. I'm coming closer and making fun of myself pretending struggling on a step machines. she laughs.
Alcohol: "Hey, if you're unemployed you must have lots of free time?"
I finish my workout, she is waiting for me, good.
We get into my car:
Well, all sweaty we drive in my car to the bar next to my house. It's only 8 blocks away. I get two hot chocolates. (it's cheap, and it worked yesterday with Vietnamese girl).
Then a regular talk follows, about her life, her ex-boyfriends, she tells me an ok joke, I didn't get it, or perhaps my fever (I just found out I have a light fever) is destroying my good mood. She looks upset I didn't laughed and qualifies herself more. The table is so big between us. I do some kino/palm reading, but it's just too far away. I good IC though. She says she really likes red wine, I use it as a pretext to come to my place, which is just one block away. She agrees, no hesitation.
My place, I put some romantic music, candles, wine. Talk more about sex, she tells me about her boyfriend experiences. Funny, she had sex yesterday, her boyfriend came to visit her for a weekend, but since she is living in a different city they decided to brake up.
I invite her for slow dance, try to kiss, she resists, with a little push she goes for a kiss. Then she tells me, she didn't plan to kiss, and it's too fast for her, especially after her ex-boyfriend just left yesterday. I say it's ok, we're just having a good time.
Then she tells me that I'm a very nice and sweet guy, because of the candles and romantic stuff. Bad sign, I figured girls don't want to have sex right away with nice guys.
I think it helped a little, she lays down on my bad, and we start to make out heavily. I kiss her neck, grab her bubs, massage her crutch. She touches my chest and butt. Goes good overall. She constantly stops me, and bring out the story that she just had a good weekend (with sex) with her ex-boyfriend and she is not in mood for any sex, and that she can't go for it so fast. I try some more stimulation. She tells me not to be so pushy, she liked me much more when I was nice. She explicitly says, she wants to go on 2 dates and then have sex. I'm impatient, attempt for heavy stimulation again, more resistance.
She says, she needs to go home, I drive her to the gym (to her car), she gives me her phone number and promise not behave weird at the gym when she sees me next time. (I don't really care). I ask if she wants to watch a movie sometime, she can rent it, and I'll cook something, she says it's fare, gives me a light kiss and leaves. (I'm not sure if I want to see her again though. And I'm not sure if I screwed up with too much pushing or it's just my inside fever makes me less motivated). Cheer to everybody
Hey everybody,
Today (Monday), I went to the gym after work (8pm), met a new girl, invited her for coffee after the gym, then got her to my place, made out, fingering, no sex.
(She is 24, white American, naturally blond/brown, long hair, looked a bit sweaty, body is very sexy, tight black pants and a sweat shirt, face is ok, perhaps due to the lack of makeup). When I was approaching she was done with her machine, and stepping out of it:
HBsporty: "Oh, yes it is a safe machine"
Alcohol: "Are you sure you don't have any germs I can catch, if I use it after you?" (my face is serious)
HBsporty: "Yes, I'm sure, I'm very healthy, bla bla" (funny, starts to qualify herself)
Alcohol: (with a smile) "Hmm, I don't know if I can't trust you, you sure you're not sick of smth?"
HBsporty: "Positive, talks more about her perfect medical history " (I'm not sure if she realizes it's a joke though)
(then 2min of regular fluff, where u from? etc. She just moved here from California, looking for a job)
HBsproty: "I really want to go the restroom. do you know where the restroom is in this gym?"
Alcohol: "It's a big secret, but I guess I can share it with you, (lean closer and whisper on her ear.. tell her the actual way to the restroom)"
HBsporty: "Thanks, are you still staying here? I'll be back. Find me here later, ok?"
Alchold: "OK"
HBsporty: "Oh yes, I do"
Alcohol: "Do you change after the workout? do you shower?"
HBsporty: (looks surprised) "Yeah, why?"
Alcohol: "We can have some coffee, after the workout. But I still need to finish a few things so let me find you in 30 min"
HBsporty: "ohh, okk, I suppose ... we can do that.."
Alcohol: "I'm done. let's go, but I need to take a shower"
HBsporty: "No, don't take a shower please, I forgot my towel, and I don't want to be the only one sweaty"
Alcohol: "Come and take a shower with me, I'll share my towel"
HBsporty: laughs
HBsporty: "Do you pick up girls from the gym a lot?"
Alcohol: "All the time, as a matter of fact there is another chick waiting for me at the gym still. so you have only 10 mins"
she cracks up
Some more kisses, but she turns away and stops me constantly. She asked me when was my last sex, it's a sensitive test, but since I'm already a "nice guy" for her, I'm trying to change her impression. I said I had I sex yesterday and the day before yesterday with two different girls (true story). I'm just dating, but looking for a special one. She looks very surprised, asks for more details, I don't tell her.
