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I recently had a streak of 7 new lays in 7 weeks. This was unprecedented to me, and brought my total from 21 to 28. Most of these have converted to FBs, 4 of which pretty solid, arguably 5. I'm having sex 10-15 hours a week. There are nights where I'm too tired to have sex even though I could call some girl up and get it. This has never happened to me before.
I've implemented some, not all, of the advice given these last couple years.
The things that have been the biggest influence, in my opinion:
2) Escalation:
3) General approach to game
Hooking the attention of high-energy party girls at a club is a cool skill, but it's not all of game. Also, in general I'm a pretty laid-back dude, so it's never going to be a strength
I'm a little pissed off that the whole mantra of going 5 nights a week to high energy mainstream bars and clubs didn't get me the promised results and that other things seem far more important, but such is spilled milk. I guess I've learned to think of things more critically.
Of the stuff going on here, sex-talk, or talking about sex from a position of authority as TVA» takls about, featured in two of my lays, so there's some value there.
But I wouldn't say I've been following any particular community method lately.
There's still more to work on.
Anyway, for now I may post a little bit in this thread and check out what's going on lately.
I'm generally too busy with shit to post much, though, in the near future. Just want to give a heads up.
In general I plan to continue with what I'm working on, focus more on other things and get back into game more hardcore again next summer. I think to some extent just the massive exposure last summer helped me with this too, even if results were minimal.
Hope all is well for all of you.
Decided to rename myself to reflect a fresh start in how I look at things.
1) For attraction:
-Lifestyle/identity. Really getting back into my hobbies. It's easier to talk about cool things you're doing than reciting the ring routine for the 80th fucking time. (thanks to BradP for this tip)
-Improv. Taking improv classes has helped me quite a bit with my humor, I think, and in general being able to flow off the top of my head
-More important than SOIs or kino is logistical escalation. Making sure to move her around a lot. At a bar, for instance, move her to another area of the bar, then another area, then to go get something to eat, then to go home. Very important to always go for this
-With physical escalation, the biggest tip I can give is hand-holding. It's the first kino that's communicating "I dig you" and yet is not a overt move like a kiss. If you try to hold hands with every set you're more likely to escalate it further
-Of these 7, 3 were social circle, 1 was strip club, 1 bar game, 1 day game, 1 a house party. None were from the mainstream clubs I would frequent.
I still plan to go to those, and I am doing better there in general (getting makeouts far more often), but it seems like my efforts would be better spent
a) developing my social circle further
and
b) Finding girls that I'd naturally be compatible with, hitting on more girls in places I would naturally frequent
1) Developing my social circle. This is probably the most important thing. Any tips would be appreciated. I don't know why people don't focus on this more, here.
2) Expanding and diversifying my sources. Trying online game», dancefloor game, etc.
3) Breaking rapport more, teasing, C/F etc.
4) I still need to perfect the "stacking routines to hook high energy sets" thing, but it won't be a priority.
