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-Put your thumbs in your pockets and lean against a wall.
-When she says something, be witty, win verbal ping pong…
-Take up space, talk loudly, don’t care, never pay a girl a drink.
-Levitate to order drinks.
-Recite your routines before you go to bed.
I’m just kidding. Saddest things make you laugh.
This ‘coolness package’ could only come from guys who didn’t get it.
They saw cool guys via shattered glasses; they were marginalized and their perception of coolness is totally erroneous.
Years after that, they got laid with a method and stated it was THE method [Even rapists get laid though].
They gained a reputation, and eventually, transmitted the shattered vision of coolness they had to desperate guys with lost souls, who where amazed seeing a guy achieving the ‘awesome exploit’ of kissing a drunk girl on Youtube, and went in worship mode perpetuating this very ‘shattered glass effect’ cycle.
Stop reducing it to where the thumbs are.
I agree there is cool, laid-back body language», and there is socially awkward jumpy energetic monkey body language», big yes.
What I want to say is that:
It’s a core to the shell process, never the other way.
Maybe you’ll fake some traits, then what? Get laid? So does the least attractive guy who pays a pro a reasonable price.
Yes, I was in the cool side in high-school.
No, making fun of others isn’t cool. Other persons in the clique did it, and people saw it via shattered glasses as a cool thing to do.
Yes I played football [The real football, the one you play with your feet], Yes it has its little success…People saw it via shattered glasses and thought it’s being in the team that makes you cool.
High-school is over, I’m not in the team anymore, and as far as I know, I’m still cool. I guess. Oh my God, Am I?
Yes I am in electronics and feedback systems. No, being in a field like that doesn’t necessarily make you a nerd. Most of the time it does, though.
I’m not good in describing things clearly, so I give examples as usual. Be patient, and try to read. Especially, if you're rehearsing your routines now.
Ahh, coolnes… The way you’re treated…The way you treat…
Girls laugh about guys I barely know trying to be me, imitating the way I walk, the way I talk, my mannerisms and expressions, even my smirk and smile… My whole life, I saw that.
And I think, why on earth would anyone want to be someone else?
They imitate even the shape of my lips, thinking that it is that particular smile that is making people attracted.
They focus on the shell neglecting the core.
This is the kind of guys who wish they had super powers to get chicks more easily, who wish they were bitten by a spider or enter a club from the roof and order drinks while levitating to get chicks.
« Don’t pay drinks to girls, it’s uncool»
With all my respect. Depends on why you do it.
Guys who paid girls drinks hoping that it would lead them to sex and when it didn’t work, they then said to themselves that it was something bad in itself.
I can pay drinks, the same way I may be with a friend and his friends I don’t know, and pay for it, the same way I talked with a hobo who was pretty cool and we had lunch together, the same way guys/girls I don’t know pay my ticket in the bus, the same way people pay me drinks or other things.
The same way I’ll open a bottle and ask the person with me/near to me to take the first sip to make my drink taste better [My big brother did that when I was a kid, he tastes the drink and says “Beurk!!… horrible, add some sweet Vautrin, take a sip” when I did, he would taste it and say “Ah ! Now it’s drinkable”]
The same way I will cut my sandwich to share with whoever is with me.
The same way I talk with a person in a restaurant asking if the meal tastes good, and she invites me to taste it.
What benefit am I waiting from paying lunch for a hobo? None, I just did it.
Man!
Somehow, uncool people get instantly defensive and disagreeable, trying so hard to seem cool. Thinking that ‘disagreeable’ is cool. Shattered glasses vision.
It makes their own friends laugh.
The things that uncool people think make coolness are really weird. It gets weirder when lost souls take what these people say as Gospel.
Uncool guys fake to not notice you when you’re talking to their crush, and they come to talk to her. How can you not notice a person in a group of two! She will look at me, roll her eyes and we’ll laugh about you behind your back.
If there’s something characteristic of them, it would be the fake “Oh, I didn’t notice you”… You bet they did from a 100 meters. LMAO, it’s LAMO.
They must think that it’s ‘cool’ because ‘cool’ people never noticed them.
What is coolness?
It’s not leaning against a wall or putting your thumbs in your pockets.
Yes I can lean against a wall, but I don’t do it for other reason than my personal comfort.
It’s not this that makes me cool. I don’t usually lean against walls as the ‘cool puas’ do.
What coolness really is…
Coolness is the way you treat people, furthermore, it’s the way you view people.
I will read a post, and see that the guy sees everybody as a potential threat, cock block, amog, competitor.
Lots of guys are like Don Quichotte struggling with imaginary windmills.
Why make simple things complicated?
He feels the need to dominate everyone to get some pussy.
Attention hungry. Thirst of domination due to being persecuted for so many years, I guess.
Don’t compete. Don’t compare.
Uncool guys wouldn’t hang with their buddies if they had a girl available. Hanging with their friends is a second choice for them.
Uncool guys wouldn’t talk with other guys. They don’t see how it could help them get laid. It’s their only criteria to talk to people.
They wouldn’t talk to you, but if they saw you once with a couple of girls, suddenly they are your best friend.
I talk with almost anyone who seems cool to me, guy or girl, whether we exchange contact info or not, I enjoyed the interaction. Bus driver, clerks, cashiers, guys in the coffee and on and on.
I have a sort of an amused air when I walk, maybe a little smile in the eye[that comes from the core of feeling like home everywhere, that comes from the core of enjoying people and life] that makes people naturally look at me and ping me all the time.
I don’t need to dig my head, memorizing so many openers, making up two pages stories as an excuse to talk to a girl.
How about a look and a smile, then saying hi. The only reason I talked to her is that she seemed as a person I’d like to meet, maybe she’s cool, let’s find out. Is that bad?
‘Cool puas’ say that HSE girls would blow me off. Not my experience, and I’ll add that any person, girl or guy who responds bad to that, screams insecurity and low self esteem.
Good I approached her/him, Now I know I don’t want to know him/her.
These guys assume that good looking girls are HSE. Shattered glasses.
I would talk to me if I was someone else.
What makes people want my company? I don’t know, fun times?
I don’t care if it’s alpha or not to say I’m sorry if It was really my fault.
I am very calm, and I keep my cool in situations that would drive anyone crazy[Explosions, car traffic, long lines, car breaking up in the highway] I have a clear mind, and I make better decisions like that.
I don’t even repress my anger as it doesn’t exist in the first place to be repressed.
Like pretty much anyone in the world, I had been in several fights, but it was the last option. Some were minor, some involved pussies carrying knives.
I don’t worry about tough guys, if it goes physical, they won’t let their friends harm you, they will fight à la régulière, one on one.
Whether he kicked my ass or I kicked his, we both have marks. Next time we see each other, no grudge held, acknowledgement head motion. Mutual respect.
I worry about the weak pussies, who will deceive you and will stab you in the back, and leave you dead. For what ? You broke their little crystal ego.
I don’t make people feel guilty for months when they do something wrong. Life’s too short.
I am gentle as a guy. I have a little side perceived as jerkish by most people. But it’s not.
I don’t talk about my problems, as I pretty much solve them on my own. It’s just a waste of time and something my friends don’t need. I don’t whine when I can change my situation.
I will answer “Nice ass” when I get “What are you looking for, in a gir?”. And It’s not funny.
My face is straight when I talk about things like that. Ass is a spiritual thing.
I don’t answer with some witty comment or anything. I just smile and ignore it. Irrelevant.
People say I’m strange, I really am. What is normality ?
I love the silent moments. I get amused by people getting awkward by that.
Girls will make comments to tease me, I just let them like I let my little nieces do, they’re just looking for their uncle’s attention. I find it cute.
Guys I know talked trash about me, just not a big deal. I’m very used to that.
People love me, people hate me. I signed to accept both one day of September 87.
I don’t hold grudges although sometimes I’d like to, I just can’t help forgetting easily. And somehow, people don’t hold things on me. And it drives some guys crazy.
I talk about it as I would talk about my breakfast. All the same. I don’t do it too much, though.
Some guys will feel uncomfortable and kick me under the table, or try to cover my mouth with their hands because “girls are with us”.
Goes the same when one of those guys introduces me to a girl, I will hold her hand with my right one, and hold her fore arm with my left one, and leave it there, looking in her eyes caressing her hands and telling her that I was just in the bathroom, and the moisture she feels isn’t water. They all crack up laughing, instant ‘thing’.
The rest of the interaction, they can’t help devour me with their eyes.
A guy I appreciate finishes his studies. I recommend him to recruiters I know in some big companies and establishments, kind of pretty desired position. He thanks me telling me he owes me, really, it’s nothing.
People call me to ask if I know someone having a degree in accounting or whatever… I know guys in different fields, I make calls and find them several people to chose from.
I don’t feel the need to be the ‘center of attention’, or appear ‘cooler’ than the other guys… Matter of fact, I’ll give them credit, I make them seem cool in everyone’s eyes, I make them participate in the conversation more often, I bring them in. I add their value.
I don’t fight for “center of attention” position. What for? I am actually busy cooking the girl.
Matter of fact, people will try to get my attention, and I am interested in what they have to say, and I am delighted to talk to them.
I don’t need to talk loudly to have attention, I talk slowly and other people will just be quiet and lean closer to listen. I can talk loudly if necessary, though.
What makes people get excited when they know I’m coming?
My views on things maybe. I am a catalyst of change.
This is how I’ve been raised, this is the kind of people I grew with. Finding options.
They feel free to be who they are, they don’t need to act, say smart things, and appear cool, brag or anything.
It’s okay if they’re not ‘cool’. Once I like somebody, I don’t care if he sucks with girls or if he’s religious or gay or whatever.
I keep my mouth shut, they know that whatever they say, I will never repeat it to anyone. I don’t talk behind anyone’s back or talk trash. Their secrets are safe.
I totally assume what I say, and if I say something about somebody, people know that I probably said that in that person’s face before. I don’t say something I can’t face someone with.
I greet people about their success according to their scale: Maybe it’s nothing for me, but it’s a big deal for them.
When my buddy had his first kiss at age 18, I was very happy for him, it was awesome.
When recently, my friend saw a girl I cooked for him, and he hesitated to talk to her, and I pushed him to do so, leaving them alone.
When I returned and I didn’t find him, I looked around and I found him isolating her out of people’s sights, he was holding her hands: I was fucking proud of him, I had my eyes wet and a huge smile, the girl who was with me asked what’s going on, I just smiled.
I think that one of the most traits, is that you accept that people are different than you.
They don’t need to be like you. They don’t need to be ‘puas’. They can eventually see what you’re living and ‘want some’, and you can help them slightly.
But the most important thing is to detach your ego from that process. They don’t have to be like you.
Neglecting this one has created clones in the community, they all look alike. Same shell, who cares about the core.
Get a necklace and get laid. Be cocky and get laid. Levitate and get laid. Two bucks solutions for lost souls.
What else? I’m pretty discreet. I don’t feel the need to make out with a girl publicly, take pictures and post them on facebook to show everyone “hey, look at me!”. Nothing against that if you do it, it’s just not me.
If what I do in bed comes in conversation, I never mention the girl’s name. If I ever mention a girl’s name, I never mention what we do, never mention if we did it or not, none of anyone’s business.
I never say “she’s my fuck buddy” or “she’s my girlfriend”, I rather use “she’s a good friend of mine” or “she’s an acquaintance of mine”.
I check on my buddies, If someone’s sick, I manage to visit him, bring some fruits, a couple of movies, his favorite paper or magazine or something I know he digs.
If he isn’t there and his family needs a ride, I will give them a ride. My buddies and I support each other. They’re very loyal.
If a friend of mine gets cold, I will give him my jacket, I can support cold better than most of people anyway.
I share with them opportunities to have a good time. I learn from them. I introduce them to girls and people I know in general.
I don’t brag or things like that. There are some limited access places. People brag all the time to have access. Dressing up to go there.
Funny how some uncool people who just had access to those places will try to lower you because they think you don’t have it.
Funnier is their face when they see you there, and it’s clear that it’s like your second home. Or when someone tells them “Guys, It’s been two decades Vautrin goes there, so chill”.
Bragging is uncool.
Chances are that persons have heard about me before. This is why I smile to people who look at me, many times, we talked before but I forgot.
Forgetting people is uncool too, I’m working on it. If the interaction was brief and they didn’t ‘mark’ me…
But I transition easily.
Most people are cool with me, I give something back. Share some core values, guys, I’d be interested. And it would benefit newbies who think they have to have a specific shell.
All the best.
What, don’t you know how to be cool?
“You got to amog the guys…Do Alpha position N°37 for 5 seconds, then switch to Alpha position N°4 for 2 seconds… Finish with two pats and a half on his back and you’ll appear cool and alpha”
Yes I put my hands on my hips, my hands behind my back sometimes, but it’s something that is just natural. My brothers did, my father did, I’ve spent more than two decades in a military base, I got a lot from that.
He will pat in the back thinking “ooh, alpha combo” telling the guy “you’ll be my body guard”.
He will feel the need to say something witty back to anything anyone says and blame himself if he doesn’t find anything.
Conversations start on their own, it’s just if I knew them before. It’s just as it was meant to be.
People are cool; they’ve just forgotten how to. Bring their cool side to light.
I don’t feel the need to change them and make them similar to me.
I don’t force them to believe in witch I do.
I don’t argue with people.
I’m pleasant.
I don’t feel the need to be or appear right every time, my ego doesn’t care when I say “I was wrong” or when a person proposes a solution better than mine, even better.
When a girl tells me that I know nothing about girls, I don’t feel the need to explain or ‘prove’ myself.
I withdraw my attention from the girl. It’s just opening the pressure cooker for a short time, releasing some pressure. I will close it later.
The best of themselves is brought when they’re with me.
I’m a guy of solutions.
When my friend did his first pull up, the hundreds I can do didn’t matter as THAT very ONE he did.
