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As I'm reading through the beginner's section, I can't help but notice an overwhelming percentage of threads start with something like, "There's this one girl..."
WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!!!!!
I don't give a shit if she's miss universe, there should never be just one girl. You need to change your thinking to, "There are these 3 billion girls..."
You shouldn't go through the internet looking for advice on how to fuck this one chick. It makes you pathetic and way below AFC. To top all that off, NOBODY can give you that information except for her. Just go read the threads:
AFC: There's this one chick...blah blah blah
Guess what: we all know she's different. That's why you're getting the only advice that works for all girls.
Let's get this straight. Picking up chicks is not about the girls. It's about YOU. When you focus on the girls, you become AFC. I'm sorry to tell you, that there's no magic pill when it comes to picking up chicks. However, if you start thinking about you, then there is a magic pill. PU is about transforming yourself into something desirable: not just women, but all people.
What's the difference between focusing on you and focusing on the girl? When you focus on the girl, you're elevating her importance above your own. Why would you want to make some chick more important than you? Then you come to mASF looking for the tools to help you land that chick...but you are still doing that FOR HER, because everything you do these days happens to be for her. You need to change that thinking, and start doing things for you. There is a lot of good advice on the forum designed for people who want to improve themselves. There is virtually no advice about how to get "this one chick."
Okay story time with VG:
I don't know if it was the $80,000 vehicle she picked me up in, or if it was the group of orbiters that she brought along, or if it was the fact that my cutie flaked, or if it was the piercing she never wore at work...but there was just something about this girl. So here we are up in the mountains--me, HB, and 3 pathetic losers all trying like hell to get into her pants. This girl is a player.
Anyway, to make a long story short. I ignored her most of that day and just had fun skiing. A few days later, I take her out and kiss close. Then a few days after that, she takes me out and we wake up together the next morning
Life was going well, right? Wrong. She freezes me out after all that. She flakes our next outing, and the one after that, and the one after that. When we do get together, it's always full of heavy make out sessions but the night always ends short. So enough was enough and I nexted her.
Now it's her turn with the calling and texting ever day. I always answer but end the conversations early (hey I'm a busy man and she's a flake).
Anyway, she's out of town for the holidays but she's still calling and wanting to talk. Now the point of my story: since she's been gone, I've focused every ounce of energy to not think about this chick. This includes calling ex-girls, going out on a nightly basis, and sleeping with other random girls. I went out last night and opened about 40 sets in two different bars before getting cockblocked and going home alone (I know I know). But my friends, THAT is the essence of GFTOW.
As of right now, she's the best chick around. That's why she's on my mind. But things tend to change in a heartbeat. I could meet a better girl tomorrow. Or my current oneitis might cut the shit with the games. Either way, I'll be fine. I don't need to elevate this girl above me. I don't need her.
You don't need your oneitis. Remember that no chick is more important than you.
Keep in mind that I don't consider myself to be any kind of master. I'm looking to get better too...actually, that's the whole point.
PUA: Kino/GFTOW/NEXT
AFC: But I really really really like this girl. I think I'm in love. I've tried all that stuff.
PUA: Kino/GFTOW/NEXT
AFC: But this one is different...
I have my oneitis too. We met through work but I wasn't all that attracted to her at first. A friend of mine tells me about his immediate oneitis with HB. So I generously let him move in. After some time, I notice that she LJBF'd him, so I decide to give him one extra little push by planning a ski trip up to the mountains for all of us (and another little cutie I was trying to bang). It was on this trip that I really started to like this girl.
