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How does this relate to pick up?
I noticed long time ago that if I couldn’t fuck a girl at same time that I met her (because she was a in bad mood, she had to go, not very interested, logistics) and I had to take a number, it was often better to just act like a friend and don’t show sexual interest in them. This usually meant that they answered my calls, email and text messages easier and it was easier to meet up with them(less flaking). Once they showed up I would crank up the sexual and would fuck them. This was in the good case scenarios.
I read something by 60 on his website (60 if you reading this maybe you can elaborate) where he said that as soon as you meet a girl you should make sure you give her the message that you are a sexual treat to her, otherwise you are fucked (or not fucked as the case maybe) because she is gone LJBF you.
The problem that I have with that view comes from something I learned from sales as well: Is best to bring potential buyers into your office and make them decide then. You don’t want them to decide at their house because they will procrastinate, fear will kick in, other sales companies will get to them etc. In fact, I was trained to give as little info about the product as possible, just enough to bring them in. Let’s call this THE MOVIEW PREVIEW TACTIC. I had some of the same experiences with women as well, some girls who didn’t have much interested in me (they told me after I fucked them), after they came and met me, I was able to get them.
As you all can see, both of these strategies have pros/cons. We all know the social butterfly girl with dozens of orbiters on facebook…. But you also don’t want a girl to make up her mind about you while you are not with her (her ASD will kick in, procrastination etc), hence the movie preview tactic, acting like a friend before you get the day2 .
What do you guys think is the best option? What was your experience with this?
When I worked in sales there is an interesting thing I learned about human nature.
If someone came in and they were interested in buying my product but they went home to talk to their spouse, think some more etc. , about 80% of the time they would not come back. On the other hand, in the same situation if you convinced that same type of person to buy the product by explaining to them that they have 3 days to return it, the percentages were reversed and only about 20% came back for a refund.
Sometimes, however, it was hard to take them out of the LJBF mind set and didn’t get any. I also felt like a sneak for creeping them under the radar.
From my experience there is an issue with this because she is less likely to meet you if you show sexual interest ( SOI, Sexual Tension, kino, kiss, etc) because she knows that once she meets you will try to fuck her. Thus she has to decide before she meets you if she wants to fuck you or not. Many posters have said that this is a good thing because you screen girls and don’t waist your time with the ones interested in other things.( food, drinks hustle you, attention whores etc).
