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Texting close rates are directly correlated to your over-all social and seductive experience.
If she is into you--she will reply.
If you say dumb shit--she will stop replying.
Don't "try" to create attraction through text. If it's not already there,--it's not there.
If you have attraction--she will laugh at your jokes. It also helps if you are funny.
If she doesn't reply in 24 hours--try again. If she still doesn't reply--don't bother.
If you feel exceptionally needy: Write her number on paper, then delete it from your phone. You will not be tempted to text "dumb shit."
You text dumb shit because she hasn't replied yet.
Use text to set up logistics. "Wanna hang out soon?" It is fairly straightforward--even supplicative? Yes it is. In advanced game you can utilize supplication (I will write more about this phenomenon soon.) Keep her ego from being offended. If you have high value being too demanding or cocky will screw up your interaction.
If she is down she will say, "Sure." Or inquire about logistics. She may ask screening questions.
Build rapport through simple afc questions.
Use humor to lead into logistics.
Zardoz: Where do you live?
Keep humor to a minimum. You have attraction. Just set up logistics.
Remember? You had her at "hello."
If she doesn't reply to logistics questions or avoids the topic completely--she isn't into you. Try again in 24 hours.
Girls that are down won't flake.
Be the last to text. End on a high note. Do not be an over texter. Remember that feeling when she doesn't reply? You wait hours and hours. Still no reply. It sucks right? And then you finally get a good reply..."Hooray! Kittens and rainbows, life is good!" If you are an evil genius utilize this. Otherwise ignore that and be nice.
If she takes too long to reply. She isn't interested right now. Maybe later. WIth these girls just occasionally offer outings. "Hey. Party at xyz house."
Do not be emotionally invested or her no-reply's will mess with your ego.
Control the flow. If she reply's straight away, within minutes--do her the same favor. It's a good relationship to have. If you want the texts to be spaced, start the spacing. Explain, "I only check my texts once an hour." If she is cool she won't be invested in your replies. No game playing....awesome. Or if you are me you could say,
Your goal is to quit playing games. You are a grownup now.
Keep messages short and sweet. Less is more.
If you must be cocky, do it because it works.
General rule: Be cocky in person--nice in text. If she digs you, it's because you are high value. Maybe higher than she views herself. Well....hopefully?
If you are sarcastic, tell her, "I am very sarcastic. Bad for texting lol," or something like that. It will save your ass if you say dumb shit.
Dumb shit is when she responds poorly. Like not replying or calling you a "prick." Which you are.
How to avoid dumb shit, or being a dumb prick: Text as little as possible. Set logistics.
Break this rule for the sole purpose of glorious self amusement.
Help her close you.
Note: These guidelines are not gospel. Most advanced players can turn around most flakes. They can create attraction through text. They can be incredibly bold and cocky and merely amuse themselves. But simplicity is much more efficient. Like a horny robot with a wounded human heart
Attention:
"It's been an hour! Oh my ego....fuck! I'll just text one more witty line...."
No. Erase her number. (Use only for the 9's) The other ones (Cough....six)want you bad enough to make a close happen. Don't worry. The six will be an 8 in 2 to 4 more years. And your 8's will be 6.2.
Girl: East side
Zardoz: Oh Gangsta. I'm West side.
Girl: Haha
"I only check my texts once an hour. Nazi's....They're everywhere. Bitch." But.....hey. That's me. And that's why I blow it sometimes.
