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10. The biggest difference between PUA Guru's and newbie's is that Guru's aren't afraid of failure. --> I will say this forever! You guys don't get it. Guru's fail, that's right FAIL, sometimes as much as you do. Trust me, I've seen it. Don't get me wrong, they're amazing and everything, but this is still the biggest difference I've noticed. So how can they go home with a girl every night? Because they don't give a fuck. They learn from it if they can and they move on. Any guru who says he doesn't fail with women is LYING TO YOU. I know, I've seen it. You will never be 100% with women. It won't happen! This is NOT A SCIENCE!! If it was, it would be called Pick up Science, but it's not. It's Called the Pick Up Arts. Because of that, there are elements in every interaction that cannot be accounted for. Learn from your mistakes and MOVE ON. The say the tiger fails 19 times hunting on average before he makes a kill. Can you believe that? A fucking TIGER! So unless you've failed 20 times in a row, you have no room to bitch.
9.Make her lit Cigarette Disappear
7. Enjoy AMOGing and Learn To Do It Well!
6. You don't have to be a sexual NLP guru, just read David Shade's Manual. It teaches two invaluable techniques to get a woman off that she probably hasn't experienced before. One of the two almost always work. It's a worthy purchase.
4. Day Game Is SOo Easy. You don't need anything clever guys. It's WAY easier than nightgame. Just think of what you would normally ask about in a given location, were you there legitimately and ask ANY girl that question, even if she doesn't work there. In a store, ask ANYONE what would be a good gift for your little sister. In the grocery store, ask where the cherrios are. Once you realize that 90% of day game is just opening the conversation up, you're going to be sooo happy with your sex life.
3. The Opener, "Did You Guys See That Chick Fight Outside?" Is Still The Best Mixed Set Opener Ever.
2. The Question Game is the Easiest, Most Fun Way To Elicit Comfort/Strike Up a Convo on Day 2/ during comfort after isolation.
1. Stop Qualifying Yourself, Start Qualifying Her.
It's been a long ride, and yet I still have so far to go. I feel like my game has switched formats a hundred times over. I've changed how I open sets, changed back, and changed again. That's about how all of my game has gone. Still, some tactics/ideas have stayed the course and been with me from virtually the beginning. Here's some.
When I first came into the community, I made the mistake of trying to master a handful of gimmicks, magic being one of them. Even though now I think magic is too tryhard, there are a coupld of illusions that I do use pretty consistently. Making a lit cigarette disappear is one of them. Learn how to do it. I can't teach you how to do it here (last time I did, Mystery himself replied to Formhandle asking for my post to be taken down as it violates "magic code.") The illusion is very, very easy to learn. It just takes a little research. Anyone who is deadset on learning it and can't find anything may contact me for further advice.
8. Opener's are all body language», not what's being said. I could write a whole thesis on this statement, but just trust me. Stop looking for the best opener. In the beginning, just find three that you're comfortable using (BTW one of these should be 'hi') and use them. Stop filling up your notebook with endless amounts of openers like I did.
It takes a real man to difuse a fight effectively and charmingly. And the better you get at this shit, the more fights your bound to have presented in front of you. See, as you get more alpha, you will become threatening to all those gorilla AFC douschebags out there who don't know how to handle their emotions or alcohol. Memorize a few, not a ton. They don't have to be poetic. Just enough so that you can deal with guys, and not just girls.
MY DEFAULT AMOG: "Well you know I'm always trying to impress you 'X' guys." (x= something unique about them. Are the bald, are they wearing a hat. Is their shirt red. are they bikers) This isn't the funniest amog, but it does the trick and it's easy to learn
MY FAVORITE AMOG: when a guy is trying to fight you in front of a large group of girls. "Dude, relax. Just chill out. These girls are totally into you. Just be yourself. Just be...real."
5. It's Really Hard to be Ugly.
This subject has been beaten to death, but some guys never really seem to buy into the idea. See, it's really hard for any guy to be ugle these days. It actually takes a lot of work. You have to not go to the gym, not whiten your teeth, not clear up your skin, not get a sense of style, and not get a haircut that costs more than 20 bucks. Any guy who DOES do those five things will be attractive, I promise. Do some research, get a chick to help you, save up for a personal trainer. Figure it out.
This is still the best opener to use when your target is with guys. I don't care how many tv shows it's been used on, it works like a charm still.
The rules: a) both parties have to be honest. b)no questions can be repeated c)if you two end up hating each other later on, none of this can be used as ammo d) you can only play the game this one time only.
Basically you two just begin firing questions back and forth. Simple. Fun. Goes well with alcohol.
I see guys neg, use c&f, do magic, and run DHV routines WAY TOO MUCH. Just stop. Wanna know something funny? Once you become confident enough, you will begin the interaction with attraction already! Your first step, therefore, should be to qualify the girl. That is, find out something cool about her and give her props for it. Let her know that you, a very attractive guy, approve of HER. Too often guys try to build attraction for way too long. So, if you feel up to it, next time try going into a set just to find out something cool about your target...and congratulate her on it. "Oh my God, you love Brittany Spears and want to be a singer? That's so cool!" [turn heart towards hers so as to reward her with an IOI...consider doing takeaway]
