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I've met this really pretty girl outside a lounge/bar in NYC recently and we hit it off a decent bit. We exchanged numbers and agreed to meet up for drinks a few days later.
Fast forward to our meetup, and even though this girl is physically the type that I'm attracted to, the conversation is going absolutely terrible - she just can't stop grilling me about my job, money, "5 year plan" and other money related shit. It was really bad, and a complete turnoff, especially since she kept bringing it back up once I smoothly changed the conversation topic. She just wouldn't stop!
So of course after drinks i told her I had to leave because I had work early the next morning, and I scurried the fuck out of there and never contacted her ever again.
Fast forward to about a week later, and I'm meeting up with a few friends (some even forum members on this site) for a night of good old fashioned lady gathering fun. I tell the story of this awful date to one of the guys, coincidentally a "community" member, and his response honestly shocks me a little.
Me: "dude, she was obviously a gold digger and a terrible person that I really wanted no part of".
And then it hit me - a lot of "community" guys have this same belief, that every single woman has some sort of angelic magical being inside of her, you just have to pass a few shit tests, smash her bitch shield, and the charming girl will reveal herself. That is simply not true.
Sure, some women are difficult, some women have attitude, and some women will put up the said "bitch shield" on you for you to smash. But not everyone has that angelic center - some people are just genuinely bad people.
HELL NO! The pinnacle is whatever kind of girl YOU want to be with. Sure, for some it's strippers. But for me it's a smart girl with a great family and a solid education
1)I know a girl whose facebook status updates follow this cycle: "omg im so druuunkk-> that boy is hottt --> oh yeah im the hookup queen--> omg im taking a break from alcohol-> omg why does everyone think im some sort of drink slut??? I totally am not!!!--> omg tipsy again time for fuuuun". To me that's not girlfriend material.
2) The women that sleep with married men then brag about it. Tiger woods sluts were a perfect example - I mean shit, I have never watched golf in my life and I knew that man was married. So did shame follow these women? No, they are making a career out of it, a career out of being a whore. Not girlfriend material
3) Blatant gold diggers. Here is an example (an example that illustrates why I hate a lot of women in NYC because they have that exact same attitude) - http://www.snopes.com/love/dating/golddigger.asp - not girlfriend material
So yes gentlemen, some women have that soft cushy center, some are villains, but that is to be expected, because women are PEOPLE, men are PEOPLE, so the instant you stop chasing some sort of thought and start embracing people for people, you will be much happier, and wont need "thousands of approaches under my belt" to feel like you deserve to talk to the women you really want to
Hey everyone, just wanted to share a little token of wisdom on what happened to me recently.
Friend: "Hey dude you should have totally re framed those shit tests on a framed IOI (random community lingo for 2 minutes) yeah man you totally blew it".
And a lot of guys just fail to realize that. This is exactly why I put this post in the beginners section - lots of guys come into the "community" after reading The Game and old Mystery Method» stuff where nowhere does it mention that women can be bad people too. In fact there it suggest the opposite - there are no bad women and strippers are the pinnacle of success with women.
Now, here is a little refresher course on people to avoid (in my opinion):
