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People say that going out without drinking is akin to drinking no-alcohol beer because the enjoyment is greatly reduced. I have also been told that that is an approach only a guy with the intention of going out to pick up girls would adopt, which is not my case, though I like the idea of being able to pick up a girl if I so desire – if she is there and interested, then I would like to be able to consistently satisfy her, whoever she may be.
The fact of the matter is my motives go deeper than all of this superficial mishigas. I have become saturated with the need to associate alcohol with having a good time. It’s almost like the mental processes I had when I smoked weed, where I always had to smoke a doobie before watching a movie, or going out, etc.
If I can’t enjoy nightlife (and I enjoy it a lot) without getting drunk or drinking at all, then maybe the nightlife isn’t so great after all.
Last night I arrived at this restaurant place and drank without having to pay until I got drunk. Then I proceeded to head out to another place and continue drinking (this time with payment). This second place was overpopulated with girls, most of them hot.
My level of drunkenness hampered my ability to successfully lay or at least make out/finger/et al any of these beautiful women. One (a pretty Italian girl that was taking a class with me last semester) that opened me (yes, things reached this level) after a bit said “you are so drunk” or something along these lines.
Her intentions weren’t malefic of that I’m quite certain; she was merely stating a fact. Looking back I don’t remember clearly all of what happened last night (which in itself is something I hate about alcohol). What I do know is I didn’t manage to make out with this Italian girl or do something more with her (and I definitely could have, there was interest).
In fact, there was interest from all of the girls there (except the prude/in general not in the mood ones). But I didn’t cash in – and I’m not self-chastising my performance, or what I did. I was there to have fun and that I did, but I think I could have had more fun if I had picked up a girl – on any of this because of my level of drunkenness.
My liver feels bad, I am hungover, I feel unhealthy, and I haven’t been hitting the gym enough of late. I believe eradicating the alcohol and working out 4x/week is going to drastically alter this state of affairs. Today, 23rd May, I am officially stopping all alcoholic consumptions until such a time as I feel comfortable I am not dependent on this commodity to get myself laid or to have fun.
It appears Sleazy» did manage to have fun, even when he was going out to clubs and raves sober. He enjoyed the seductive process, his daring pursuits. He was drunk on his own achievements. On a natural high, something other players like Cosy talk about. I want that. I’m done with this cheap artificial solution (beer, wine, whatever). I believe one of the core reasons alcohol hampers performance is it allows you to have a good time WITHOUT pushing your boundaries in a new interesting way and exploring female sexuality, which is IN AND OF ITSELF fun.
I refuse to concede that one can’t be in a partying state, or in a good social, talkative, interesting mood, without having to be necessarily under the influence of alcoholic beverages.
From now on, at least for a month, I’m going sober.
I have decided I am going to stop drinking. The inspiration for this move was Sleazy», who I firmly believe to be a true seducer in the sense that he doesn’t need booze to get on a woman’s naughty side. I think this is the genuine thing, the real deal.
