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The Background: Did a quick inventory of the girls in my rotation and I just realized something. Out of nine girls (one just left for Alberta), four of them I picked up after they had served me in some capacity.
HB9ThaiStewardess
With the exception of HBThaiStewardess (now FBThaiStewardess), I used a version of this same line on all of them to set up the original Day 2: "Come out to dinner/lunch/coffee with me. I like to take care of the people who take care of me."
The Frame: Are you grateful when people do things for you? Do you genuinely appreciate competent service and personalized attention? A lot of guys are too busy pretending to be alpha to notice, right?
Okay tough guy, let me ask you: You think the mafia remembers favors? You think guys in the special forces care about competence?
True alphas project abundance and appreciation, not entitlement. Look at Brando in the first Godfather. He said he wanted to adopt the mannerisms of someone who was so accustomed to power that he no longer felt the need to show it. Surely you are not more alpha than Don Vito Corlene??
The frame of abundance and appreciation is closely linked to the Buddhist principle of being present in the now. And when an attractive woman has just spent an hour washing, rinsing, cutting, drying and styling your hair... not to mention rubbing her pelvis against your arm, brushing hair out of your eyes, leaning her tits into your face... well, how the hell do you NOT pick her up THAT INSTANT?
The Line: "I take care of the people who take care of me."
It's DHV of the highest order. You are the GENEROUS PROTECTOR. The girls I used it on all knew I was married. Still my offer is irresistible to them.
I could see the bewildered look in HB10PilatesInstructor's eyes when I first asked her out. After all, my wife is the one who set up my appointment. But I delivered the line with such unshakable sincerity... because it's true... that she seemed to think it would be rude to refuse me.
In the case of HB9DentalAssistant, the line doesn't even make sense! All she did was greet me when I entered the office and schedule my next appointments. Oh, but she loved it when I told her that her smiling face helped me get over my new crown. And when I accused her of falling for guys that drool.
Here's my translation of the Chick Logic involved--tell me if you see any holes:
a) I was just doing my job, but he noticed and appreciated ME!
The Application: There's no universal line or technique. This works for me because I'm genuinely grateful. A woman who serves me becomes instantly more beautiful in my eyes. Her caring is a key element to her feminine beauty (props David Deida).
Channel this appreciation and you will never run out of things to say because you will be seeing the best in her. She will be endlessly fascinated because you will be showing her a new side of herself.
It always starts with how difficult their job must be because no one appreciates them. And they all agree. Always an endless stream of assholes. Yet, here you are... listening and appreciating her. And you want to take her out and appreciate her more? In a nice setting? Where she can dress up and later brag to her friends about how she was treated so well?? Do you see how this works?
After that, there are insights, secrets of the trade that emerge. HB7HairStylist told me how girls sometimes brush up against a guy on purpose to get a bigger tip. Even the gay male stylist will gently brush the hair from a middle-aged woman's brow to re-ignite that forgotten spark of random kino and to expand his client list. I correctly guessed that HB10Pilates was a former dancer and we fluffed about how hard a life dancing must be, given the limited opportunities to really make a living. Do you see the EMOTIONAL DANCE I am leading her on by having her open up about her lost passion?
Now, I am drifting into very general PUA territory but remember that the rest of this game flows from your genuine appreciation of her feminine nurturing instinct. See the beauty in THAT. Then let that be your spur to action.
Considered posting in Tactics, then changed my mind. I think there's more to be learned than just the line in the title.
HB7HairStylist
HB9DentalAssistant
HB10PilatesInstructor
b) He's the kind of guy who expresses his appreciation spontaneously!
c) He wants to take me out to thank ME!
d) I feel secure that this is a quality guy who doesn't just want me for my looks!
e) I deserve to be appreciated!
f) He keeps looking right into my eyes... (her circuits fry)
