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So anyway, I'm walking around the store, and I'm feeling all badass when I make eye contact with a girl handing out samples, and there was literally no time for conscious action, I instantly flinched all nervous and stuff. Weird. Anyway now I see this girl is cute and eying me and I know it's on.
So I'm circling around, I get a sample from her and then another, very lame, don't make any conversation. There is another guy across the way handing out samples, he appears to be an amog. So I'm circling. I'm totally inside my head, trying to psyche myself up. I tell myself "I've been saying that I never meet girls I like. Well here's my chance. I'm starting to lose confidence, but I know how bad I will feel if I don't do it. I decide right there that I'm going to make a change, change what I've been doing that's failing, which is not taking action. I realize there is a potential obstacle, and maybe bystanders. But I know that right now I have to opportunity to go for something I truly want, and only right now. So I make my way back over there.
This time, I go over to the potential amog first. I'm not sure if I managed to disarm him, but he was no trouble during this interaction. He even seemed to help me, saying "Have you tried her sample?" as if telling me to go talk to her. This time I go over there and strike up a conversation. It's going good, it's flowing, she's nervous, ioi's, I'm nervous too. I move over to her side of the table when other people stop by. Now I can kino, which I did a tiny bit but it is definitely a weak point in my game. She just keeps handing me food and I just keep eating it, lol. I ask her about school, where she's from, etc. Eventually I tell her I have to go, and would she like to hang out sometime. I could tell before I even asked what the answer was by the look in her eyes. "Yes"
I'm standing in line and I realize that getting her number as I run off could trigger some asd. I shoot her a text, something like "Hey, it's rin, nice talking, see ya!" I really feel like this is the way to go, rather than waiting a day or too when her bt cools off. She texts me back a few hours later " hey it was fun chatting today" I text back later "Good Maybe we can hang out sometime early next week" She gets back with "Yea just tell me when and I'm there."
It's funny because with the last couple online meets I always feel like a flake is a second away. With this girl it's weird, such compliance in that text it's unbelievable. Not sure what will happen next week but I'm feeling good about it.
I guess women really do want to get picked up. It turns them on and earns you points for being a masculine man. I felt really good today knowing I went for something because I really wanted it, and that I had enough skills to have positive results. For the record, I haven't been doing any cold approaching lately, due to lack of motivation mentioned before. This was nice. This is what I want pickup to be to me. The ability to go get what I want when the opportunity comes. This success was huge for my confidence in knowing that I can do this! Thank you everyone who has helped me make it this far! And I'm far from done learning!
OK, so recently I've been having little luck, my lifestyle doesn't let me meet many girls right now, I've been trying online, met a couple girls, one didn't turn me on, the other I met up for a little bit by coincidence but have yet to have a real meet...anyway I've realized lately that I haven't been going after girls I really want, I'm still in the "approach for practice" mentality. Which is the wrong mentality because it makes it feel like work, rather than something you want.
"OK, sounds good" "should I give you my number?" She writes it on a napkin. I make a joke about how it's good practice for when she graduates and has to become a waitress, and kino her. It felt awesome but I think I could have said anything and she would have laughed. The amog seems speechless. As I'm walking away he gives me a verbal pat on the back.
