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This is a killjoy post. I have not been in an exclusive relationship for many years but I try to understand it. I read of Hhaller and donkaktus and how they see themselves trapped. They have promised to be exclusive and then their women are doing things that are reasonably suspicious that they might be fucking around. Or at least their women are actively shopping around and keeping their options open.
Then I read Taffers post and how his woman denigrates him because he is a sexual man. The list goes on. . . . .
It makes me wonder what in the hell you guys want that for?
So this is the best I can describe an exclusive LTR as you guys seem to set them up. You tell the girls:
I promise to not get my sexual , intimate, and loving needs met by another person. In return you promise not to have sex with other guys. The only way I will change this agreement is if we have a big breakup or I know beyond all doubt that you have broken your end of the deal. By the way we both know that I want sex more than you do.
I have reworded this a number of times to try to take out my antipathy but to keep it true. Is it accurate? That is in my opinion the EFA that you LTR guys have. You try to act like your not the jealous type but the relationship is built on sexual jealousy by definition. You try to keep a pretense of power but you give the power over your core desire to her with no agreement that she even remotely meet that desire.
What is NOT included in this agreement speaks volumes. There is NO agreement to meet one anothers needs. There is nothing about her making you happy or vise versa. There is no positive goal or outcome stipulated. The only thing you get from this agreement is the prayer that as long as she is being totally honest you are the only man who she is fucking.
Promising Exclusivity
I know that is what society thinks is important but do you?
