Do your looks matter? Of course they do, but not nearly as much as you think and not
nearly as much as anyone else thinks. Men fundamentally judge women by their looks: face,
hair, eyes, breast, legs, body, etc. and, more than anything else, it is a woman's looks
that turns men on (or turns men off). For a (heterosexual) man, a woman's looks are what
initially "trances" him out, whereas women tend to be seduced more by words and
actions - unless the man is some kind of male supermodel or superstar in which case women
will trance out on him in the same way a man will trance out on any beautiful
woman. It is only natural that men think the same rules about looks apply to women as they do
men. To a certain extent, yes. A woman, however, places much less importance to how a man
looks compared to how he can make her feel. Looks might better help you get the
"audition" but that's all. Techniques like spoken NLP patterns, eliciting and
mirroring values, Mr. Smooth, kino, etc. are strategies based on direct derivations of
that understanding. Good looks, the right (symmetrical) face, decent body, nice clothes,
will provide you an opportunity to "audition" for a woman much more easily than
bad looks but that's all you get - an audition. From that point on it still comes down to
how you can make her feel. It's your ability to make women feel warm, happy, and magical
deep down inside them that makes them actually want you, not how you look. That doesn't
mean, though, that you shouldn't always try to look and feel
your best. Why handicap yourself? See also:
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