Act like you already know her One of the easiest and most effective ways is to start talking to them, like you've
already know them. Just start in the middle, like you'd go on from where you left off the
last time you two met or just start with anything new, just as if you were talking to an
old acquaintance of yours:) Skip all opening-lines (99.9% of them suck and girls hate
them) and introductions (she's gonna be offering her name and phone number soon anyway,
you just need to construct the opportunity for her:). It is very important not to convey
the image that you are hitting on her, at least not while initiating contact. Being
friendly (and not drooling over her), being confident (and not sweating, trembling and
stuttering) and being humorous go a long way in achieving this. Fool her into thinking that she knows you Kevin Kupal, mindlist: "Look surprised, then look away for a while, then look at
her then look surprised again. She may open a discussion. If not, open yourself by saying
something like: "You look strangely familiar. I swear I must have seen you somewhere. (pause). I
can't remember yet. Let's switch it around. Do you HAVE THAT FEELING that you
STRONGLY RECOGNIZE ME. Do you HAVE THAT FEELING NOW that I"M UNCANNILLY
FAMILIAR.(?)" Her (most likely response, if the principle works): "... yeah... I must have seen
you from somewhere" You: "You want to sit down for a cup of coffee while we figure out why we feel so
familiar with each other ?" (presup hehehe)." The High 5 modification Craig, ASF: "I give girls high fives all the time, usually when they are walking
in the opposite direction as me and we cross paths in a club. Then, the next time I see
them I say, "I remember you!" and then we are instant friends! I will also just
go up to a girl and put my hand up in high 5 postition, then when they slap it I'll just
start talking and go into my routine." | 
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